She had married her husband against her wishes and when she bore the
first daughter and he manifested his disappointment, she began to feel
that she had indeed married the wrong man. She then made the first
scene of jealousy in connection with a little girl of thirteen who came
to help the servant girls. While still in bed after her confinement,
she made the little girl kneel and swear by her father's life that she
was still pure. This oath calmed her at the time.
After the birth of her son, she felt she had fulfilled her duty to her
husband and was free. She flirted with every man but would not tolerate
the slightest liberty from them. At the same time, she made her husband
violent scenes of jealousy and tried to incapacitate him, thru her
constant passionate advances, for relations with any other women. When
taken to a sanatorium, she gave evidence, thru her behavior toward the
other women inmates of strong homosexual leanings. She confessed to
Ferenczi that there had been homosexual experiences in her childhood.
She then became more and more unmanageable and the analysis had to be
abandoned.
=A Case of Projection.= This is Ferenczi's comment upon this example
of insane jealousy: "This case of delusional jealousy becomes clear
when we assume that it was a question of projection upon the husband of
her desire for her own sex. A girl who had grown up in an exclusively
feminine environment is suddenly forced into a marriage of convenience
with a man she dislikes. She reconciles herself to it, however,
and only shows indignation when her husband proves cruelly unkind
(disappointment over the birth of a girl) by letting her desire turn
toward her childhood ideal, the little girl of thirteen. The attempt
fails, she cannot endure homosexuality any longer and has to project it
upon her husband.
"Finally after the birth of her son, when her 'duty' is done, the
homosexuality she had kept in bounds takes possession in a crude erotic
way of all the objects that offer no possibility for sublimation (young
girls, old women etc.), although all this erotism, (with the exception
of cases when she can hide it under the mask of harmless flirtation),
is imputed to the husband. In order to support herself in that lie, the
patient is compelled to show increased coquetry toward the male sex,
to whom she had become very indifferent and, indeed, to demean herself
like a nymphomaniac."
I have cited both cases at length for they confirm the statement I have
made elsewhere in this book that very exaggerated feeling is usually
a mask for the opposite feeling. Ferenczi's two patients, in love
with persons of their own sex, "simulated" neurotically a passionate
attachment for their heterosexual mates, who, naturally could not
attract them.
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