=Masked Sadism.= Their stormy jealousy was more akin to hatred than
to love. There was no tenderness in it but a good deal of sadism, of
cruelty, and they used it in order to torture their mates on whom, in
the course of their jealous scenes, they could heap up abuse, which
they would not, under any other circumstances, dare to voice as freely.
Many a husband would like to insult a wife he detests. Neurotic
jealousy supplies him with an excuse which he might not find elsewhere.
After which, if the vocabulary he used on that occasion is especially
vile, he has a good scapegoat at his disposal. "I was crazed by
jealousy and did not realise what I was saying."
CHAPTER XVII
HOMOSEXUALISM; ITS GENESIS
Love's normal goal is the union of the male and the female in a way
which may insure the reproduction of the species. At times, however, we
behold love deviating from the path that leads to that goal: a man may
love another man as passionately as he would love a woman, a woman may
be consumed with desire for another woman.
Certain parts of the ancient world looked with indifference upon
such deviations from the normal. The poems of Sappho, the dialogues
of Plato, to only mention the best known sources of information on
the subject, prove that in classic Greece homosexual unions were
countenanced by public opinion. In the "Banquet" young Alkibiades
describes, with a frankness reminiscent of eighteenth century novels,
his attempts at "seducing" Socrates. In the holy island of Thera an
inscription commemorates the "wedding" of two young men, Erastos and
Klainos, which was celebrated with all sorts of ceremonies.
A distinction was even drawn in those days between homosexual love
which was purely sexual and the kind of love which was both sexual and
intellectual.
=Groups of Male Lovers=, Harmodios and Aristogeiton, Kratinos and
Aristodemos, etc., became famous and legendary owing to their unusual
faithfulness and constancy. Pederasty was countenanced by the very
behavior of the Greek gods, of Zeus in particular.
The various philosophers granted women the right to indulge in
homosexual love if they wished, but, nevertheless, Lesbian love, as it
was called after Sappho of Lesbos, was rather considered as a freak
of nature, if not a vice. The low social condition of Hellenic women
accounts for that illogical difference in treatment.
=Women Were Harem Slaves= with little opportunity for intellectual
development and their homosexualism could not drape itself in the
mantle of intellectual pretence which it wore in the gymnasiums and
schools frequented by men.
Greek mythology offers no example of love between goddesses.
Sappho and the Lesbian poetesses gave female passion an eminent place
in Greek literature but the Aeolian women did not found a tradition
corresponding to that of the Dorian men.
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