Radiant Motherhood: A Book for Those Who are Creating the FutureStopes, Marie Carmichael
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Radiant Motherhood: A Book for Those Who are Creating the Future
Stopes, Marie Carmichael
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According to the author of the _Théorie des
Quatre-Mouvements_,[7] this was almost the critical age (_Problems
of the Sexes_, transl. Jean Finot 1913).
[6] Balzac: _Physiologie du Mariage_.
[7] Charles Fourier, Leipzig, 1808.
The relative ages of husband and wife also have their influence, but
should, to some extent, depend more on their _physiological_ age than
on their actual years. They should, however, not be widely different.
As Saleeby says:--
The greater the seniority of the husband, the more widowhood will
there be in a society. Every economic tendency, every demand for
a higher standard of life, every aggravation for the struggle for
existence, every increment of the burden of the defective-minded,
tending to increase the man’s age at marriage, which, on the
whole, involves also increasing his seniority--contributes to the
amount of widowhood in a nation.
We, therefore, see that, as might have been expected, this question
of the age ratio in marriage, though first to be considered from
the average point of view of the girl, has a far wider social
significance. First, for herself, the greater her husband’s
seniority, the greater are her chances of widowhood, which is
in any case the destiny of an enormous preponderance of married
women. But further, the existence of widowhood is a fact of great
social importance because it so often means unaided motherhood, and
because, even when it does not, the abominable economic position of
women in modern society bears hardly upon her. It is not necessary
to pursue this subject further at the present time. But it is
well to insist that this seniority of the husband has remoter
consequences far too important to be so commonly overlooked (_Woman
and Womanhood_, 1912).
I have observed many girls, who were in every true sense of the word
girls (that is unconscious of personal sex feeling, still growing in
bodily stature and still developing in internal organization) until
they were nearly thirty years of age. In my opinion, the girl who
is thoroughly well-balanced, with an active brain, a well-developed
normally sexed body, natural artistic and social instincts is not
more than a child at seventeen, and to marry her at that age or
anything like it is to force her artificially, and to wither off her
potentialities.
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