Ragged homes and how to mend themBayly, Mrs. (Mary)
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Ragged homes and how to mend them
Bayly, Mrs. (Mary)
Charities -- Great Britain; Poor -- England -- London
At a very early period in our meeting we introduced a whitewash brush.
This is lent to any of the mothers who apply for it. It is very
frequently out; indeed, in the spring of the year, it is seldom at home.
As many as seven or eight of these brushes have been worn out in the
service of the society since its commencement. A thick iron saucepan is
also kept at the house of one of our missionaries, and lent for the
purpose of soup-making. Each member is supplied with a large printed
receipt, giving particular direction for the composition of this soup.
This receipt is so valuable, that I intend placing it at the end of this
book.
There is one other subject to which I wish to refer, before laying aside
my pen. An objection has sometimes been raised to the establishment of
Mothers’ Societies, on the ground that it is wrong to offer these poor
women any inducement to leave their homes; that accident may arise from
their absence; that the husband may be dissatisfied, and so forth. A
lady once reminded a working-man of these objections; he roughly replied,
“What’s the use of a woman being always at home, if she can’t do
nothing—no good, when she is there? Now she does pick up something at
the meeting, and we are all a sight better off the rest of the week for
her going there a bit.” Another lady, visiting at one of their houses,
asked the husband how he liked having to remain at home, and take care of
the children, while his wife was at the meeting. His reply was, “I
should think, ma’am, that was little enough for me to do for all the good
my wife gets there. She is always bringing home bits of clothes for some
of us that she makes there, besides lots of things to talk about.”
It must be evident to all, that it is not possible for any mother to
spend every hour of her life at home. When, unfortunately, she is
obliged to assist in the maintenance of the family, many hours of absence
have to be provided for; and it is not more difficult to arrange for her
absence at the Mothers’ Meeting than anywhere else. Children, from the
age of one to seven, are generally in bed before seven o’clock; older
children are not so likely to get into mischief; and the baby, if
necessary, can be brought with the mother.
It is not desirable, however, that any president should require
regularity of attendance. The illness of their husbands or children, and
many other things that may arise, ought, of course, to keep the mothers
at home. When they have come to me to apologise for their absence, as
they frequently do, I have generally to say, “I should indeed have been
sorry to have seen you here under such circumstances.”
There is surely some want of sympathy in the hearts of those who continue
to urge this objection. A lady once not only declined subscribing to the
society on this plea; but said also, it was all owing to the “miserable
mothers that the servants of the present day were so bad; and she would
not have anything to do with such a set.”
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