Ragged homes and how to mend themBayly, Mrs. (Mary)
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Ragged homes and how to mend them
Bayly, Mrs. (Mary)
Charities -- Great Britain; Poor -- England -- London
Those who can dismiss their children, at pleasure, to the nursery or the
school-room, are apt to forget the sufferings of others differently
situated, whose lives are worn down by one constant and unmitigated
pressure. I have thought that one principal reason why the poor mother
often fails so much in her duties is, that there are no _pauses_ in her
work. The physical suffering and the weariness of spirit induced by this
constant toil have much to do with that fretfulness of temper which often
makes the homes of poor children wretched indeed. A cord strained too
tightly, and too long, will snap at a touch that would otherwise have
produced the sweetest music. The words of sympathy which meet the ear at
these meetings refresh the wounded spirit. The thought is suggested,
that, painful and irksome as the work may often be, it is of God’s
appointment; and that to do it for Him, and with a view to His glory, at
once ennobles and sanctifies it.
A poor woman, whose heart had been renewed by Divine grace, once said to
me, “I used to think I was the poorest, miserablest thing in the world,
always slaving about after children; but now God has shewed me my work so
different, that I wouldn’t change with the parson.”
The following letter, which I received from one of our poor mothers, will
prove the truth of these observations better than anything I can add:—
“POTTERIES, _January_ 7, 1856.
“DEAR CHRISTIAN FRIEND,—
“It was very much my wish to have spoken a few words on Thursday
evening, but was unable to do so; therefore, to pacify my conscience,
I write to you, stating a few of the advantages I have received since
I became a member of your society.
“1st. That of sympathy. If I have been in trouble and difficulty,
you have ever lent a willing ear to my tale of sorrow, and led me to
cast my care on Him who has promised to care for me.
“2d. That of training my children in the best way. Being obliged to
work very hard for them, I have found little time to spare for
teaching them; but being reminded by you so often that a mother’s
voice, a mother’s look, a mother’s actions, are all noticed by
children, I must say it has often influenced me to bear with patience
much that I should not have done, and offer a silent prayer for their
welfare; and been more happy myself in thus acting.
“3d. We enjoy rest. Often with hurried step we hasten there, and
the first sound that salutes our ear is the calm voice of prayer,
which seems at once to hush the mind to peace, and carry our sorrows
to a throne of grace, where we find relief and comfort.
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