Reflections; or Sentences and Moral MaximsLa Rochefoucauld, François duc de
Philosophy
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims
La Rochefoucauld, François duc de
Maxims
313.--How is it that our memory is good enough to retain the least
triviality that happens to us, and yet not good enough to recollect how
often we have told it to the same person?
["Old men who yet retain the memory of things past, and forget how often
they have told them, are most tedious companions."--Montaigne, {Essays,
Book I, Chapter IX}.]
314.--The extreme delight we take in talking of ourselves should warn us
that it is not shared by those who listen.
315.--What commonly hinders us from showing the recesses of our heart
to our friends, is not the distrust we have of them, but that we have of
ourselves.
316.--Weak persons cannot be sincere.
317.--'Tis a small misfortune to oblige an ungrateful man; but it is
unbearable to be obliged by a scoundrel.
318.--We may find means to cure a fool of his folly, but there are none
to set straight a cross-grained spirit.
319.--If we take the liberty to dwell on their faults we cannot
long preserve the feelings we should hold towards our friends and
benefactors.
320.--To praise princes for virtues they do not possess is but to
reproach them with impunity.
["Praise undeserved is satire in disguise," quoted by Pope from a poem
which has not survived, "The Garland," by Mr. Broadhurst. "In some cases
exaggerated or inappropriate praise becomes the most severe satire."--
Scott, Woodstock.]
321.--We are nearer loving those who hate us, than those who love us
more than we desire.
322.--Those only are despicable who fear to be despised.
323.--Our wisdom is no less at the mercy of Fortune than our goods.
324.--There is more self-love than love in jealousy.
325.--We often comfort ourselves by the weakness of evils, for which
reason has not the strength to console us.
326.--Ridicule dishonours more than dishonour itself.
["No," says a commentator, "Ridicule may do harm, but it cannot
dishonour; it is vice which confers dishonour."]
327.--We own to small faults to persuade others that we have not great
ones.
328.--Envy is more irreconcilable than hatred.
329.--We believe, sometimes, that we hate flattery --we only dislike the
method.
["{But} when I tell him he hates flatter{ers}, He says he does, being
then most flattered." Shakespeare, Julius Caesar {,Act II, Scene I,
Decius}.]
330.--We pardon in the degree that we love.
331.--It is more difficult to be faithful to a mistress when one is
happy, than when we are ill-treated by her.
[Si qua volet regnare diu contemnat amantem.--Ovid, Amores, ii. 19.]
332.--Women do not know all their powers of flirtation.
333.--Women cannot be completely severe unless they hate.
334.--Women can less easily resign flirtations than love.
335.--In love deceit almost always goes further than mistrust.
336.--There is a kind of love, the excess of which forbids jealousy.
337.--There are certain good qualities as there are senses, and those
who want them can neither perceive nor understand them.
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