Roman Society from Nero to Marcus AureliusDill, Samuel
Philosophy
Roman Society from Nero to Marcus Aurelius
Dill, Samuel
Rome -- Religion; Rome -- Social life and customs
No small part of old Roman piety consisted in a scrupulous reverence for
the dead, and a care to prolong their memory by solid memorial and solemn
ritual, it might be to maintain some faint tie of sympathy with the shade
which had passed into a dim and rather cheerless world. The conception of
that other state was always vague, often purely negative. It is not often
that a spirit is sped on its way to join a loved one in the Elysian
fields, and we may fear that such phrases, when they do occur, are rather
literary and conventional.(1438) The hope of blessed reunion after death
seldom meets us till we come to some monument of a Christian
freedman.(1439) But two of the deepest feelings in the Roman mind did duty
for a clear faith in the life beyond the tomb: one was family piety, the
other the passionate desire of the parting spirit to escape neglect and
oblivion. Whoever will cast his eyes over some pages of the sepulchral
inscriptions will be struck with the intensity and warmth of affection,
the bitterness of loss and grief, which have been committed to the stone.
The expressions, of course, are often conventional, like obituary
memorials in every age. The model wife appears again and again, loving,
chaste, pious, a woman of the antique model, a keeper at home, who spun
among her maids and suckled her own children, who never gave her husband a
moment’s vexation, except when she died.(1440) Good husbands seem to have
been not less common. And the wife’s grief sometimes far outruns the
regular forms of eulogy or regret. In one pathetic memorial of a union
formed in earliest youth, the lonely wife begs the unseen Powers to let
her have the vision of her spouse in the hours of night, and bring her
quickly to his side.(1441) There is just the same pure affection in the
less regular, but often as stable, unions of the slaves and soldiers, and
the _contubernalis_ is lamented with the same honourable affection as the
great lady, although the faulty Latin sometimes betrays the class to which
the author belongs. The slave world must always have its shame and
tragedy; yet many an inscription shows, by a welcome gleam of light, that
even there human love and ties of family were not always desecrated.(1442)
The slave nurse erects a monument to her little foster child; or a master
and mistress raise an affectionate memorial to two young _vernae_ who died
on one day. A freedman bewails, with warm sincerity, a friendship begun in
the slave market, and never interrupted till the last fatal hour.(1443)
The common tragedies of affection meet us on these slabs, as they are
reproduced from age to age with little variation. The prevalent note is,
_Vale vale in aeternum_, with thoughts of the ghostly ferryman and the
infernal stream and hopeless separation. Now and then, but seldom, a soul
passes cheerfully from the light which it has loved, happy to escape the
burden of old age.(1444) And sometimes, too, but seldom, we meet with a
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