Romany Life: Experienced and Observed during many Years of Friendly Intercourse with the GypsiesCuttriss, Frank
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Romany Life: Experienced and Observed during many Years of Friendly Intercourse with the Gypsies
Cuttriss, Frank
Romanies -- England
“So that’s Romipen (marriage),” said I—“and do you consider it
binding?”
“Always, prala,” she replied impressively.
“Supposing the man did not think it was, and left you?” I ventured.
“So much the worse for him,” she answered—“for whenever any of my
people saw him they’d down him with a cosh.”
“Is that the gypsy law?”
“That is the gypsy law, prala.”
The earnest manner, and the convincing tone in which all this was said
left no room for doubt that the unwritten laws of the Romanies are
really felt by them to be more sacred and binding than the law of the
land,—the former being obeyed because of an inherited respect for
them, or a mystical allegiance to tribal traditions, while the latter
would appear to command respect only on account of the physical force
behind.
The gypsy wedding is usually accompanied by a spree by way of
celebration, and unhappily some of the company emulate the gorgios at
similar functions by getting into a state quite the reverse of sober.
Such conduct, even if pardonable on these occasions, is of course
discreditable, but to be quite just to the gypsy I must say that his
behaviour in the circumstances seems to be less bestial than that of
many a non-gypsy who professedly despises him.
“Are you married?” asked one of the girls of me.
“No,” I replied.
“Well, you ain’t got much to worry about,” said she, with a saucy smile.
Not far from our group was a camp that had all day appeared deserted
save for a child or two left “on guard.”
Now there came from it sounds as of meat sizzling in the frying-pan,
while clouds of wood-smoke ascended and a cheery voice called out:
“Will you join us?—you’re welcome.”
Accordingly, we went over to the living wagons and tents and found
several women busily engaged in preparing for the evening meal; one was
dexterously manipulating a frying-pan, another tended the fire, and so
on.
I was invited to partake of the meal with a family whose home was a
tent. In the way of food there was bread and jam, German sausage and
bread, and bowls of tea. As I was the guest I was offered for a seat a
boot-repairing iron upon which a piece of sacking was placed to modify
its undesirable qualities. I imagine it would take years of practice to
enable one to sit with any degree of comfort on a boot-repairing iron,
but I determined to make the best of it and to appear as though I liked
it and had sat upon nothing but boot-irons all my life. However, the
fumes from the coke fire hard by proved almost too much for me and I
was in danger of falling from my precarious perch. My friends evidently
noticed this as they made a less uncertain seat for me by upturning an
empty bucket and covering the bottom with an old coat as a cushion.
[Illustration:
“There is in all this cold and hollow world
No fount of deep, strong, deathless love,
Save that within a mother’s heart.”
MRS. HEMANS.]
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