Doubtless all our single men,
and especially our Christian young men, would much rather be deemed
disreputable and denied decent lodgings than establish their character
for virtue and respectability by buying female slaves, however cheap, or
marrying nice young widows divorcible at pleasure!
As to polygamy, Mr. Lane remarks that it can only be defended as
preventing a greater immorality than it occasions; and that Mohammed,
like Moses, did not introduce but limited and regulated it. The ancient
Egyptians had but one wife each, though they might have slave
concubines. Polygamy, however, is rare, and rarer among the upper and
middle classes than the lower; “I believe that not more than one husband
in twenty has two wives.” The mere sentence, “I give myself up to thee,”
uttered by a female to a man who proposes to become her husband (even
without the presence of witnesses, if none can easily be procured)
renders her his legal wife if arrived at puberty. A man may divorce his
wife twice, and each time take her back without any ceremony, unless she
has paid for it by resigning the reserved third of the dowry, furniture,
etc.; but if he divorces her the third time, or puts her away by a
triple divorce conveyed in one sentence, he cannot receive her again
until she has been, married and divorced by another husband, who must
have consummated his marriage with her. To divorce her, he simply has to
say, “Thou art divorced,” or “I divorce thee”; but the woman cannot
separate herself from her husband against his will, unless it be for
some considerable fault on his side, such as cruel treatment or neglect.
The facility of divorce has depraving effects, upon both sexes. Many men
in the course of ten years have married twenty, thirty, or more wives;
and women not far advanced in age have been wives to a dozen or more
successively. “I have heard of men who have been in the habit of
marrying a new wife almost every month.” But such conduct is generally
regarded as very disgraceful; and few persons in the upper or middle
classes would give a daughter in marriage to a person who had divorced
many wives.
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