I am, dearest Etta, Your sincere and faithful lover, GEO. COURTRIGHT. To Miss Etta Jay, Malden, Ill. {47} _17.--From a Gentleman to a Widow._ Philadelphia, May 10th, 1894. My Dear Mrs. Freeman: I am sure you are too clear-sighted not to have observed the profound impression which your amiable qualities, intelligence and personal attractions have made upon my heart, and as you have not repelled my attentions nor manifested displeasure when I ventured to hint at the deep interest I felt in your welfare and happiness, I cannot help hoping that you will receive an explicit expression of my attachments, kindly and favorably. I wish it were in my power to clothe the feelings I entertain for you in such words as should make my pleadings irresistible; but, after all, what could I say, more than you are very dear to me, and that the most earnest desire of my soul is to have the privilege of calling you my wife? Do you, can you love me? You will not, I am certain, keep me in suspense, for you are too good and kind to trifle for a moment with sincerity like mine. Awaiting your answer, I remain with respectful affection, Ever yours, HENRY MURRAY. Mrs. Julia Freeman, Philadelphia. _18.--From a Lady to an Inconstant Lover._ Dear Harry: It is with great reluctance that I enter upon a subject which has given me great pain, and upon which silence has become impossible if I would preserve my self-respect. You cannot but be aware that I have just reason for saying that you have much displeased me. You have apparently forgotten what is due to me, circumstanced as we are, thus far at least. You cannot suppose that I can tamely see you disregard my feelings, by conduct toward other ladies from which I should naturally have the right to expect you to abstain. I am not so vulgar a person as to be jealous. When there is cause to infer changed feelings, or unfaithfulness to promises of constancy, jealousy is not the remedy. What the remedy is I need not say--we both of us have it in our hands. I am sure you will agree with me that we must come to some understanding by which the future shall be governed. Neither you nor I can bear a divided allegiance. Believe me that I write more in sorrow than in anger. You have made me very unhappy, and perhaps thoughtlessly. But it will take much to reassure me of your unaltered regard. Yours truly, EMMA. * * * * * {48} [Illustration: MODESTY. ACT NATURAL AND SPEAK WELL OF ALL PEOPLE.] * * * * * {49} Hints and Helps on Good Behavior at all Times and at all Places. [Illustration: THE HUMAN FACE, LIKE A FLOWER, SPEAKS FOR ITSELF.] 1. It takes acquaintance to found a noble esteem, but politeness prepares the way. Indeed, as Montaigne says, Courtesy begets esteem at sight. Urbanity is half of affability, and affability is a charm worth possessing.