Self and self-management : $b Essays about existing — John Shaqi
Self and self-management : $b Essays about existingBennett, Arnold
Philosophy
Self and self-management : $b Essays about existing
Bennett, Arnold
Conduct of life
‘Yes, young woman; I know what your excellent modesty is going to
say. It is going to say that the late Mr. Flack did show energy,
though he “frittered it away,” and that you do not show energy.
Now, I do not want to defend you against yourself (for possibly
you enjoy denouncing yourself and proving that you are worthless).
Nevertheless, I would point out that energy is often used in ways quite
unsuspected. Energy is a very various thing. Some people use energy
in arranging time-tables and sticking to them, and in clenching their
teeth and making terrific resolves and executing them, and in never
wasting a moment, and in climbing--climbing. And this is all very
laudable. But energy can be used in other ways--in contemplation, in
self-understanding, in understanding other people, in pleasing other
people, in appreciating the world, in lessening the friction of life.
‘I have personally come across persons--especially women--who were
idle, who were mentally inefficient, who made no material contribution
to the enterprise of remaining alive, but whose mere manner of
existence was such that I would say to them in my heart, “It is enough
for me that you exist.”
‘We have all of us come across such persons. And the world would be a
markedly inferior sort of place if they did not exist exactly as they
are.
‘You, dear young woman, may or may not be one of these. I cannot
decide. But, anyhow, if you are not one of the hard-striving, resolute,
persevering, teeth-clenching, totally efficient, one-ideaed, ambitious
species, you need not despair.
‘Imagine what the world would be like if we were all ruthlessly
set on “succeeding”! It would be like a scene of carnage. And it is
conceivable that you are, in fact, much more efficient than you think,
and that you are wasting much less time than you think, and that you
are employing much more energy than you think. You complained that
you lacked resolution, which means that you lacked one steady desire.
But perhaps your steady desire and resolution are so instinctive, so
profoundly a part of you, that they function without being noticed.
And if you do indeed lack one steady desire and the energy firmly to
resolve--well, you just do. And you will have to be content with your
lot. Why envy others? An over-mastering desire and its accompanying
energy are not necessarily to be envied.
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