Self-Control, Its Kingship and MajestyJordan, William George
Philosophy
Self-Control, Its Kingship and Majesty
Jordan, William George
Conduct of life; Self-control
Content is a greatly overrated virtue. It is a kind of diluted despair;
it is the feeling with which we continue to accept substitutes, without
striving for the realities. Content makes the trained individual swallow
vinegar and try to smack his lips as if it were wine. Content enables
one to warm his hands at the fire of a past joy that exists only in
memory. Content is a mental and moral chloroform that deadens the
activities of the individual to rise to higher planes of life and
growth. Man should never be contented with anything less than the best
efforts of his nature can possibly secure for him. Content makes the
world more comfortable for the individual, but it is the death-knell of
progress. Man should be content with each step of progress merely as a
station, discontented with it as a destination; contented with it as a
step; discontented with it as a finality. There are times when a man
should be content with what he _has_, but never with what he _is_.
But content is not happiness; neither is pleasure. Pleasure is
temporary, happiness is continuous; pleasure is a note, happiness is a
symphony; pleasure may exist when conscience utters protests; happiness,
never. Pleasure may have its dregs and its lees; but none can be found
in the cup of happiness.
Man is the only animal that can be really happy. To the rest of the
creation belong only weak imitations of the understudies. Happiness
represents a peaceful attunement of a life with a standard of living. It
can never be made by the individual, by himself, for himself. It is one
of the incidental by-products of an unselfish life. No man can make his
own happiness the one object of his life and attain it, any more than he
can jump on the far end of his shadow. If you would hit the bull’s-eye
of happiness on the target of life, aim above it. Place other things
higher than your own happiness and it will surely come to you. You can
buy pleasure, you can acquire content, you can become satisfied,—but
Nature never put real happiness on the bargain-counter. It is the
undetachable accompaniment of true living. It is calm and peaceful; it
never lives in an atmosphere of worry or of hopeless struggle.
The basis of happiness is the love of something outside self. Search
every instance of happiness in the world, and you will find, when all
the incidental features are eliminated, there is always the constant,
unchangeable element of love,—love of parent for child; love of man and
woman for each other; love of humanity in some form, or a great life
work into which the individual throws all his energies.
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