Self Help; with Illustrations of Conduct and PerseveranceSmiles, Samuel
Philosophy
Self Help; with Illustrations of Conduct and Perseverance
Smiles, Samuel
Conduct of life
The proverb says that “an empty bag cannot stand upright;” neither can a
man who is in debt. It is also difficult for a man who is in debt to be
truthful; hence it is said that lying rides on debt’s back. The debtor
has to frame excuses to his creditor for postponing payment of the money
he owes him; and probably also to contrive falsehoods. It is easy enough
for a man who will exercise a healthy resolution, to avoid incurring the
first obligation; but the facility with which that has been incurred
often becomes a temptation to a second; and very soon the unfortunate
borrower becomes so entangled that no late exertion of industry can set
him free. The first step in debt is like the first step in falsehood;
almost involving the necessity of proceeding in the same course, debt
following debt, as lie follows lie. Haydon, the painter, dated his
decline from the day on which he first borrowed money. He realized the
truth of the proverb, “Who goes a-borrowing, goes a-sorrowing.” The
significant entry in his diary is: “Here began debt and obligation, out
of which I have never been and never shall be extricated as long as I
live.” His Autobiography shows but too painfully how embarrassment in
money matters produces poignant distress of mind, utter incapacity for
work, and constantly recurring humiliations. The written advice which he
gave to a youth when entering the navy was as follows: “Never purchase
any enjoyment if it cannot be procured without borrowing of others.
Never borrow money: it is degrading. I do not say never lend, but never
lend if by lending you render yourself unable to pay what you owe; but
under any circumstances never borrow.” Fichte, the poor student, refused
to accept even presents from his still poorer parents.
Dr. Johnson held that early debt is ruin. His words on the subject are
weighty, and worthy of being held in remembrance. “Do not,” said he,
“accustom yourself to consider debt only as an inconvenience; you will
find it a calamity. Poverty takes away so many means of doing good, and
produces so much inability to resist evil, both natural and moral, that
it is by all virtuous means to be avoided. . . . Let it be your first
care, then, not to be in any man’s debt. Resolve not to be poor;
whatever you have spend less. Poverty is a great enemy to human
happiness; it certainly destroys liberty, and it makes some virtues
impracticable and others extremely difficult. Frugality is not only the
basis of quiet, but of beneficence. No man can help others that wants
help himself; we must have enough before we have to spare.”
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