Senescence, the Last Half of LifeHall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Science
Senescence, the Last Half of Life
Hall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Geriatrics
If and so far as it is true that a woman is as old as she looks and a
man as he feels, all this processional, especially its early stages,
is, on the whole, probably much harder for her than for him. She feels
not only that “the coming of the crow’s foot means the going of the
beau’s foot,” but the first wrinkles about the mouth, eyes, or under
the chin; the loss of fullness about the neck, to which folklore
attributes such significance; the first sagging of the cheeks or the
bust; the first signs of fading complexion; or the first gray hair,
give her bitter food for thought. Her cult of the mirror, that man
progressively eschews, increases. But woman commands far more resources
against all such heralds of decay than man and gives vastly more
time to compensating for them. Youth is her glory and she has more
comeliness to lose than man, who can, however, never quite rival the
hag in ugliness. She has also great powers of compensation by affecting
girlish ways and has a stronger hold on her youth than man and old
women do not feel as old as old men do. Throughout married life, if
she is well, woman usually assumes the rôle of the younger mate, even
though she be not so in years. Though sexual involution comes to her
earlier she remains in far more sympathetic touch with the young than
her husband, so that there is a half truth and not mere gallantry in
the saying that a woman never grows old.
The woman just beginning to feel passé has a psychology all her
own of which even the devotees of that science know little and she
herself yet less, but of which Michäelis in “The Dangerous Age” has
given us a few glimpses. Love, wifehood, and motherhood, as the world
knows, constitute the very heart of woman’s life and as the chance of
these supreme felicities begins to fade, something, which it is no
extravagance to call desperation, begins to supervene. Its processes
may and often do deploy so deep in the subconscious regions of the
soul that even she is but little aware of the transformations that are
taking place there. These she quite commonly ignores, camouflages,
or honestly and resentfully denies. The psychopathologist sees most
clearly the tragedies of aborted Eros as they are writ large in morbid
symptoms. But with the same causes and conditions, the same processes
are always more or less active, however repressed, and the unmated
woman before the close of the third decennium has generally come to
some terms with the death of the phyletic instinct within her, which is
the core and mainspring of her life, and has dimly anticipated all the
significance of old age.
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