Senescence, the Last Half of LifeHall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Science
Senescence, the Last Half of Life
Hall, G. Stanley (Granville Stanley)
Geriatrics
One reason why treatises on the climacteric are so few and so
inadequate is that the importance of the subject has only lately been
recognized even by psychiatrists, gynecologists, or gerontologists;
while another and more important reason is found in the extreme
reluctance of the old to tell. Psychoanalysis is impossible unless
it can overcome resistance, which it is often put to its wit’s ends
to do. Modesty and perhaps prudery have veiled the physiological and,
far more, the psychological aspect of this function. This instinct of
concealment is no less, and probably far greater, in the old. They
balk, evade, and deceive the investigator at every step. Psychoanalysts
have strangely neglected this theme and generally even refuse to take
patients of over forty or fifty years of age. What can be learned in
homes for old men is usually by observation, from attendants and from
inmates’ talk of each other, and those who answer questionnaires almost
always fail to note facts even remotely related to this theme. Still,
in this _terra incognita_ we occasionally come upon the naked truth,
only to realize that the retreat of Amor is the counterpart of its
advent, as autumn is of springtide. What nature gives so prodigally in
pubescent and adolescent years she garners with no less circumstance
and no less attention to details, so that we are left, in the end,
with no less tendencies to “polymorphic perversity” than before these
were constellated into the normal sex life of maturity. Even some of
the proclivities to auto-erotism and homosexuality may arise. Amatory
reveries may increase as dreams of this character decrease and there
are often flashing recrudescences of desire.
Despite or after the long and sometimes acute perturbations of the
_vita sexualis_ as it draws to its close, there is very commonly a new
and deep peace. We are glad that the storm and stress are passed and
that we are henceforth immune to passion. This is doubtless the normal
and, let us hope, increasingly common course. The sexes approximate
each other in both traits and features as they grow old and thus if
we can no longer love women sensually, we have a new appreciation of
the eternally feminine, its intuitive qualities, and its more general
and moral interests. Old women acquire a new power of sensing things
from man’s point of view and hence companionship between old men and
women may become a noble surrogate for carnal love. Happy the old who
can enjoy comradeship on this plane with a congenial member of the
other sex and thrice happy is the very rare case of well-mated couples
who find, when the time comes, that they have qualified for this
consummation of their union with each other!
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