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Deeply and fearfully impressed by what my own country has incurred
and is suffering, I cannot help feeling sorrowful when I see in
England signs of our besetting sins appearing also. Paint and
chignons, slang and vaudevilles, knowing “Anonymas” by name, and
reading doubtfully moral novels, are in themselves small offences,
although not many years ago they would have appeared very heinous
ones, yet they are quick and tempting conveyances on a very dangerous
high-road.
I would that all Englishwomen knew how they are looked up to from
abroad—what a high opinion, what honour and reverence we foreigners
have for their principles, their truthfulness, the fresh and pure
innocence of their daughters, the healthy youthfulness of their
lovely children.
May I illustrate this by a short example which happened very near me?
During the days of the _émeutes_ of 1848, all the houses in Paris
were being searched for firearms by the mob. The one I was living in
contained none, as the master of the house repeatedly assured the
furious and incredulous Republicans. They were going to lay violent
hands on him when his wife, an English lady, hearing the loud
discussion, came bravely forward and assured them that no arms were
concealed. “Vous êtes anglaise, nous vous croyons; les anglaises
disent toujours la vérité,” was the immediate answer, and the rioters
quietly left.
Now, Sir, shall I be accused of unjustified criticism if, loving and
admiring your country, as these lines will prove, certain new
features strike me as painful discrepancies in English life?
Far be it from me to preach the contempt of all that can make life
lovable and wholesomely pleasant. I love nothing better than to see
a woman nice, neat, elegant, looking her best in the prettiest dress
that her taste and purse can afford, or your bright, fresh young
girls fearlessly and perfectly sitting their horses, or adorning
their houses as pretty [sic; it is not quite grammar, but it is
better than if it were;] as care, trouble, and refinement can make
them.
It is the degree _beyond_ that which to us has proved so fatal, and
that I would our example could warn you from as a small repayment for
your hospitality and friendliness to us in our days of trouble.
May Englishwomen accept this in a kindly spirit as a New-year’s wish
from
A FRENCH LADY.
_Dec._ 29.
That, then, is the substance of what I would fain say convincingly, if it
might be, to my girl friends; at all events with certainty in my own mind
that I was thus far a safe guide to them.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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