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But, granting that we had both the will and the sense to choose our
friends well, how few of us have the power! or, at least, how limited,
for most, is the sphere of choice! Nearly all our associations are
determined by chance or necessity; and restricted within a narrow circle.
We cannot know whom we would; and those whom we know, we cannot have at
our side when we most need them. All the higher circles of human
intelligence are, to those beneath, only momentarily and partially open.
We may, by good fortune, obtain a glimpse of a great poet, and hear the
sound of his voice; or put a question to a man of science, and be
answered good-humouredly. We may intrude ten minutes’ talk on a cabinet
minister, answered probably with words worse than silence, being
deceptive; or snatch, once or twice in our lives, the privilege of
throwing a bouquet in the path of a princess, or arresting the kind
glance of a queen. And yet these momentary chances we covet; and spend
our years, and passions, and powers, in pursuit of little more than
these; while, meantime, there is a society continually open to us, of
people who will talk to us as long as we like, whatever our rank or
occupation;—talk to us in the best words they can choose, and of the
things nearest their hearts. And this society, because it is so numerous
and so gentle, and can be kept waiting round us all day long,—kings and
statesmen lingering patiently, not to grant audience, but to gain it!—in
those plainly furnished and narrow ante-rooms, our bookcase shelves,—we
make no account of that company,—perhaps never listen to a word they
would say, all day long!
You may tell me, perhaps, or think within yourselves, that the apathy
with which we regard this company of the noble, who are praying us to
listen to them; and the passion with which we pursue the company,
probably of the ignoble, who despise us, or who have nothing to teach us,
are grounded in this,—that we can see the faces of the living men, and it
is themselves, and not their sayings, with which we desire to become
familiar. But it is not so. Suppose you never were to see their
faces;—suppose you could be put behind a screen in the statesman’s
cabinet, or the prince’s chamber, would you not be glad to listen to
their words, though you were forbidden to advance beyond the screen? And
when the screen is only a little less, folded in two instead of four, and
you can be hidden behind the cover of the two boards that bind a book,
and listen all day long, not to the casual talk, but to the studied,
determined, chosen addresses of the wisest of men;—this station of
audience, and honourable privy council, you despise!
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