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Now their separate characters are briefly these. The man’s power is
active, progressive, defensive. He is eminently the doer, the creator,
the discoverer, the defender. His intellect is for speculation and
invention; his energy for adventure, for war, and for conquest, wherever
war is just, wherever conquest necessary. But the woman’s power is for
rule, not for battle,—and her intellect is not for invention or creation,
but for sweet ordering, arrangement, and decision. She sees the
qualities of things, their claims, and their places. Her great function
is Praise; she enters into no contest, but infallibly adjudges the crown
of contest. By her office, and place, she is protected from all danger
and temptation. The man, in his rough work in open world, must encounter
all peril and trial;—to him, therefore, must be the failure, the offence,
the inevitable error: often he must be wounded, or subdued; often misled;
and _always_ hardened. But he guards the woman from all this; within his
house, as ruled by her, unless she herself has sought it, need enter no
danger, no temptation, no cause of error or offence. This is the true
nature of home—it is the place of Peace; the shelter, not only from all
injury, but from all terror, doubt, and division. In so far as it is not
this, it is not home; so far as the anxieties of the outer life penetrate
into it, and the inconsistently-minded, unknown, unloved, or hostile
society of the outer world is allowed by either husband or wife to cross
the threshold, it ceases to be home; it is then only a part of that outer
world which you have roofed over, and lighted fire in. But so far as it
is a sacred place, a vestal temple, a temple of the hearth watched over
by Household Gods, before whose faces none may come but those whom they
can receive with love,—so far as it is this, and roof and fire are types
only of a nobler shade and light,—shade as of the rock in a weary land,
and light as of the Pharos in the stormy sea;—so far it vindicates the
name, and fulfils the praise, of Home.
And wherever a true wife comes, this home is always round her. The stars
only may be over her head; the glowworm in the night-cold grass may be
the only fire at her foot; but home is yet wherever she is; and for a
noble woman it stretches far round her, better than ceiled with cedar, or
painted with vermilion, shedding its quiet light far, for those who else
were homeless.
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