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And not only in the material and in the course, but yet more earnestly in
the spirit of it, let a girl’s education be as serious as a boy’s. You
bring up your girls as if they were meant for sideboard ornaments, and
then complain of their frivolity. Give them the same advantages that you
give their brothers—appeal to the same grand instincts of virtue in them;
teach _them_, also, that courage and truth are the pillars of their
being:—do you think that they would not answer that appeal, brave and
true as they are even now, when you know that there is hardly a girls’
school in this Christian kingdom where the children’s courage or
sincerity would be thought of half so much importance as their way of
coming in at a door; and when the whole system of society, as respects
the mode of establishing them in life, is one rotten plague of cowardice
and imposture—cowardice, in not daring to let them live, or love, except
as their neighbours choose; and imposture, in bringing, for the purposes
of our own pride, the full glow of the world’s worst vanity upon a girl’s
eyes, at the very period when the whole happiness of her future existence
depends upon her remaining undazzled?
And give them, lastly, not only noble teachings, but noble teachers. You
consider somewhat before you send your boy to school, what kind of a man
the master is;—whatsoever kind of a man he is, you at least give him full
authority over your son, and show some respect to him yourself;—if he
comes to dine with you, you do not put him at a side table: you know also
that, at college, your child’s immediate tutor will be under the
direction of some still higher tutor,—for whom you have absolute
reverence. You do not treat the Dean of Christ Church or the Master of
Trinity as your inferiors.
But what teachers do you give your girls, and what reverence do you show
to the teachers you have chosen? Is a girl likely to think her own
conduct, or her own intellect, of much importance, when you trust the
entire formation of her character, moral and intellectual, to a person
whom you let your servants treat with less respect than they do your
housekeeper (as if the soul of your child were a less charge than jams
and groceries), and whom you yourself think you confer an honour upon by
letting her sometimes sit in the drawing-room in the evening?
Thus, then, of literature as her help, and thus of art. There is one
more help which she cannot do without—one which, alone, has sometimes
done more than all other influences besides,—the help of wild and fair
nature. Hear this of the education of Joan of Arc:—
“The education of this poor girl was mean, according to the present
standard; was ineffably grand, according to a purer philosophic
standard; and only not good for our age, because for us it would be
unattainable.
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