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(III.) Thus far, then, of the nature, thus far of the teaching, of
woman, and thus of her household office, and queenliness. We now come to
our last, our widest question.—What is her queenly office with respect to
the state?
Generally, we are under an impression that a man’s duties are public, and
a woman’s private. But this is not altogether so. A man has a personal
work or duty, relating to his own home, and a public work or duty, which
is the expansion of the other, relating to the state. So a woman has a
personal work or duty, relating to her own home, and a public work or
duty, which is also the expansion of that.
Now the man’s work for his own home is, as has been said, to secure its
maintenance, progress, and defence; the woman’s to secure its order,
comfort, and loveliness.
Expand both these functions. The man’s duty as a member of a
commonwealth, is to assist in the maintenance, in the advance, in the
defence of the state. The woman’s duty, as a member of the commonwealth,
is to assist in the ordering, in the comforting, and in the beautiful
adornment of the state.
What the man is at his own gate, defending it, if need be, against insult
and spoil, that also, not in a less, but in a more devoted measure, he is
to be at the gate of his country, leaving his home, if need be, even to
the spoiler, to do his more incumbent work there.
And, in like manner, what the woman is to be within her gates, as the
centre of order, the balm of distress, and the mirror of beauty: that she
is also to be without her gates, where order is more difficult, distress
more imminent, loveliness more rare.
And as within the human heart there is always set an instinct for all its
real duties,—an instinct which you cannot quench, but only warp and
corrupt if you withdraw it from its true purpose:—as there is the intense
instinct of love, which, rightly disciplined, maintains all the
sanctities of life, and, misdirected, undermines them; and _must_ do
either the one or the other;—so there is in the human heart an
inextinguishable instinct, the love of power, which, rightly directed,
maintains all the majesty of law and life, and, misdirected, wrecks them.
Deep rooted in the innermost life of the heart of man, and of the heart
of woman, God set it there, and God keeps it there.—Vainly, as falsely,
you blame or rebuke the desire of power!—For Heaven’s sake, and for Man’s
sake, desire it all you can. But _what_ power? That is all the
question. Power to destroy? the lion’s limb, and the dragon’s breath?
Not so. Power to heal, to redeem, to guide, and to guard. Power of the
sceptre and shield; the power of the royal hand that heals in
touching,—that binds the fiend, and looses the captive; the throne that
is founded on the rock of Justice, and descended from only by steps of
Mercy. Will you not covet such power as this, and seek such throne as
this, and be no more housewives, but queens?
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