Moreover, the highest freedom of man lies in his mastery of self. The
only man who is truly free is the man who is able to control his lower
instincts. The compulsion which must be exercised in a mutually happy
sex relationship conformable to ethical principle must, however, be no
external legal compulsion, but an inward self-repression. Fidelity in
marriage must be a matter of mutual trust and yet a matter of honour.
The State and the laws cannot compel it, and have never been able to do
so; external constraint begets only hypocrisy, strife, and treachery.
On the other hand the State and the law must, as time goes on, become
more and more adapted to the protection of the helpless offspring of
sex unions.
Both parents, in proportion to their fitness and ability, must be
made responsible for the support of their children. It is in the
highest degree immoral to make a distinction between legitimate and
illegitimate children, and so to expose them and their mothers to
public disgrace because of the fulfilment of a natural function. Is
it not senseless, from the standpoint both of ethics and of law, to
declare the existence of a child, and therefore of a human being, to be
legal or illegal, or to speak of “natural children,” as if the others
were unnatural! In what bureaucratic brain can such an idea have first
arisen? It is only a remnant of a barbarous code of morals, based upon
the grossest prejudice. Antiquity, alas, justifies everything――even
crime!
* * * * *
Every woman who is healthy and strong should be proud of becoming a
mother. If sexual intercourse were frankly and naturally treated as one
of the most important acts in human life, the paternity of the child
would be easily ascertainable. A woman should not wait until the birth
of the child before speaking of it, but should promptly make a formal
declaration as to its parentage to the registrar of births as soon as
she becomes aware of her pregnancy. This would be easily practicable
if all girls received proper instruction regarding the most important
function of their lives. Instead of this, everything is now concealed
from them, and they are brought up in gross ignorance of their sexual
nature and duties.
If every pregnancy were at once legally recognised in this way, and if
the law would determine the responsibilities of both parents towards
their offspring, untrammelled by marriage laws and with the well-being
of society as its only aim, the most pressing need of our time, from
the standpoint of sexual ethics, would be satisfied. A complete
equality can only be attained by naming all children after the mother.
This is, moreover, the only rational and just system. It was formerly
the custom among many primitive peoples.
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