Siwa : $b the oasis of Jupiter AmmonBelgrave, Charles Dalrymple, Sir
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Siwa : $b the oasis of Jupiter Ammon
Belgrave, Charles Dalrymple, Sir
Siwah Oasis (Egypt)
The status of a woman in Siwa is low. She is worth less, and is of
less importance, than a donkey. She is worth, in money, a little less
than a goat. There is a strange custom in Siwa which is absolutely
different to that among the Arabs or the Egyptians. There is a fixed
price for a woman; that is to say, the “marriage money” paid by
the man to his future wife’s parents is in all cases exactly the
same—120 piastres (£1 4s.). It makes no difference whether the girl
is young or old, maid or widow, rich or poor, exquisitely beautiful,
which is rare, or hideously ugly, which is common; the only thing
that varies is the trousseau of clothes which is given by the man to
his bride, and the quality of this depends on his means. The present
of a poor man would be one gown, one silk handkerchief, one shawl
and one pair of trousers, but a rich man would give his wife several
silk robes and silver ornaments. There were innumerable quarrels on
the subject, especially when wives were divorced and their husbands
tried to keep the clothes (which belonged rightly to the woman) and
give them to the next wife. Daughters, among the Arabs, if they are
sufficiently attractive, are a source of wealth to their parents,
owing to the large amount of “marriage money” which they can
demand, but in Siwa they bring in practically nothing. Marriage is
not a binding institution. According to the Mohammedan law a wife
can be divorced by her husband merely saying, “I divorce thee,”
before two witnesses; he can do this twice, and after each time, if
he changes his mind, he can order his wife to return to him, and she
is compelled to do so. But if he says it three times, or if he says,
“Thou art triply divorced,” it is irrevocable and he cannot get
her back until she has been married to another man and divorced by
him also. But such a contretemps rarely occurs.
[Illustration: A BRIDE—THE DAUGHTER OE BASHU HABUN BEFORE HER
WEDDING]
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