Sketches of social life in IndiaBuckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
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Sketches of social life in India
Buckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
British -- India -- Social life and customs; India -- Social life and customs
Perhaps some of the most successful entertainments at Belvedere of late
years have been the garden-parties held in the afternoon, to which the
native nobility and the most influential and wealthy among the Hindoos,
Mahomedans, Parsees, Moguls, Burmese, and every other Eastern
nationality are invited, in common with all the English ladies and
gentlemen of Calcutta. The mixture of Oriental and European costume
produces the happiest effect, and exhibits a picturesque scene which
could hardly be matched elsewhere. Native gentlemen are rather shy and
sensitive, and are always more or less afraid, especially inside a
house, of compromising themselves or being somehow compromised, owing to
the machinations of the native servants, by contact with some European
arrangements of cooking, or other things which are objectionable
according to their ideas. But in an open-air garden-party they can
wander about without any fear of meeting anything that may be offensive
to their caste prejudices. It is much to be regretted that, however
well-acquainted he may think himself to be with native habits and
feelings, it is almost impossible for an English gentleman to be quite
sure that there may not be something in his entertainment for the
gratification of native gentlemen which, thanks probably to his own
servants, may not be misinterpreted or misunderstood by some of them.
But, be this as it may, it is rather difficult for the most fastidious
native gentleman to take offence when walking up and down the smooth
lawns at Belvedere; and if he diverts his course to seek the tea-tables
or the other refreshment tents, he can hardly have anyone but himself to
blame. It is very seldom that a Hindoo gentleman takes any refreshment,
but some of the Mahomedans occasionally indulge in an ice or a cup of
tea. It is very unusual for any native ladies to appear at these
garden-parties. There are a few Christian convert ladies who come to
them, wearing a sort of English costume, which is, unfortunately, not
very becoming to them. Some of the native gentlemen bring their pretty
grand-children with them, as has been mentioned in the previous chapter.
But the time has not yet come for a native gentleman to bring his wife
out on such occasions, although it is noticeable that a native gentleman
is usually very willing to be introduced to the English ladies and to
shake hands with them. The native gentlemen attach much importance to
the shaking of hands, though it is a custom not originally recognised
under their own native codes of etiquette. The time is by no means
remote when more than one native nobleman of high caste used promptly to
wash his hands after shaking hands with an English gentleman, one of his
retinue carrying a gold basin and a supply of water to enable his master
to get rid of the pollution of the touch of the white man’s hand. But we
have been informed that one of the last native noblemen who adopted this
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