Sketches of social life in IndiaBuckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
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Sketches of social life in India
Buckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
British -- India -- Social life and customs; India -- Social life and customs
witnesses, though occasionally some sort of she-wolf is arraigned for
having murdered some unfortunate child for the sake of its ornaments. Or
it may be that some quarrel about a woman has led to a murderous
dispute, and perhaps a muffled bundle of clothes said to contain a
female is produced as a witness in the case before him. But it is
exceedingly difficult even to understand the language as spoken by a
woman, and he would certainly be a bold person who would venture to
generalise on the national female character from such specimens as he
may casually see from time to time in court.
Still we are unwilling not to record a grateful reminiscence of the many
kindnesses which we have received at the hands of many influential and
wealthy native friends. How could our official duties have been
performed with any amount of satisfaction or success, without the able
and intelligent assistance so freely and zealously rendered by those
over whom we were set in authority? And how can we forbear from
acknowledging the long and unwearying faithful services of successive
generations of native servants, who so often anticipated our wishes and
carried out our orders to the best of their ability!
It is the privilege of every civilian officer to have the opportunity of
becoming acquainted with the principal native gentlemen of the district
in which he is employed. Soon after his arrival at a new station they
come to call on him; whilst those who live within a convenient distance,
and are inclined to be sociable, repeat their visits at intervals. There
are, unfortunately, some native gentlemen who seem to think it
unnecessary or undesirable to make such calls; and as the ways and
habits of different civilians differ considerably, there are some
officers who do not encourage such visits, so that their successors have
some difficulty in making it known that they will gladly receive
visitors. It is unnecessary to analyse too minutely the particular
object which each visitor has in calling; but it is much better for a
civilian to run the risk of any abuse of the opportunity by his visitor,
than to shut his door upon a mere suspicion. Most native gentlemen are
far too honourable to attempt any allusion in the course of their visit
to any subject which it would be unbecoming to mention; and if any such
attempt were made, it is easily in the power of the officer receiving
the visit to put the subject aside with due regard to his own dignity.
But the benefit, and pleasure, and information which are to be derived
from such visits far outweigh any inconvenience or annoyance that may
possibly arise from them. It is true that a portly native gentleman,
whilst uttering the usual formal compliments of introduction, does not
always remember to suppress those ebullitions which are considered
amongst his own people to be indicative of his having enjoyed his
breakfast; it is true that the language of polite flattery is sometimes
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