Sketches of social life in IndiaBuckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
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Sketches of social life in India
Buckland, C. T. (Charles Thomas)
British -- India -- Social life and customs; India -- Social life and customs
rather over-strained; but when the first effervescence of such frothy
nothings has subsided, the time will come when the visitor will work
down to his natural powers of conversation, according to the capacity
which he possesses. It is to be observed that two native gentlemen
calling at the same time prefer to be received separately, unless, of
course, they have some common object in calling; but, on the other hand,
an officer in a high position will often find his advantage in having
his visitors admitted simultaneously, especially if he has one day of
the week particularly set apart for the reception of his native
visitors.
But it may be said that these kind of visits do not amount to social
intercourse. Certainly not. Nor, on the other hand, do we admit that
there is any social intercourse, in the true meaning of the word, where
the official goes to a party at the house of a wealthy native gentleman,
to some special entertainment such as a nautch or fireworks in honour of
a wedding or any other domestic occurrence. It will be admitted that two
of the main elements of social intercourse according to English ideas
consist (1) in dining together, (2) in the interchange of ladies’
society. But the native gentleman will seldom come to dine with the
English gentleman; and although an English lady has no objection to
receive the visit of a native gentleman, or to go to his entertainments,
there seems to be little prospect at present of seeing a native lady
come forth to welcome the English visitors at her husband’s house.
Behind the mere external difficulties there come all the complications
of caste and religious observance, and also of dress, of which the
etiquette is almost unfathomable. The natives themselves are not in
accord with one another on many points which come into prominence in
their contact with English society; and although many parties are now
given in the capital of Calcutta and in other large towns by high
officials on the one hand, and by native gentlemen on the other hand,
where people of both races meet for one or two hours, we fear that on
such occasions there is very little real mutual enjoyment, and that the
hosts are usually very glad when the last of the guests has departed.
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