Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War — John Shaqi
Social Life in Old Virginia Before the WarPage, Thomas Nelson
History
Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War
Page, Thomas Nelson
Virginia -- Social life and customs
Whether or not the sons were, as young men, peculiarly admirable may
be a question. They possessed the faults and the virtues of young men
of their kind and condition. They were given to self-indulgence; they
were not broad in their limitations; they were apt to contemn what
did not accord with their own established views (for their views were
established before their mustaches); they were wasteful of time and
energies beyond belief; they were addicted to the pursuit of pleasure.
They exhibited the customary failings of their kind in a society of
an aristocratic character. But they possessed in full measure the
corresponding virtues. They were brave, they were generous, they were
high-spirited. Indulgence in pleasure did not destroy them. It was
the young French noblesse who affected to eschew exertion even to
the point of having themselves borne on litters on their boar-hunts,
and who yet, with a hundred pounds of iron buckled on their frames,
charged like furies at Fontenoy. So these same languid, philandering
young gentlemen, when the crucial occasion came, suddenly appeared as
the most dashing and indomitable soldiery of modern times. It was the
Norfolk company known as the “Dandies” that was extirpated in a single
day.
But, whatever may be thought of the sons, there can be no question as
to the daughters. They were like the mother; made in her own image.
They filled a peculiar place in the civilization; the key was set to
them. They held by a universal consent the first place in the system,
all social life revolving around them. So generally did the life shape
itself about the young girl that it was almost as if a bit of the age
of chivalry had been blown down the centuries and lodged in the old
State. She instinctively adapted herself to it. In fact, she was made
for it. She was gently bred: her people for generations (since they
had come to Virginia) were gentlefolk. They were so well satisfied
that they had been the same in the mother country that they had never
taken the trouble to investigate it. She was the incontestable proof of
their gentility. In right of her blood (the beautiful Saxon, tempered
by the influences of the genial Southern clime), she was exquisite,
fine, beautiful; a creature of peach-blossom and snow; languid,
delicate, saucy; now imperious, now melting, always bewitching. She
was not versed in the ways of the world, but she had no need to be;
she was better than that; she was well bred. She had not to learn to
be a lady, because she was born one. Generations had given her that
by heredity. She grew up apart from the great world. But ignorance of
the world did not make her provincial. Her instinct was an infallible
guide. When a child she had in her sunbonnet and apron met the visitors
at the front steps and entertained them in the parlor until her mother
was ready to appear. Thus she had grown up to the duties of hostess.
Her manners were as perfectly formed as her mother’s, with perhaps a
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