Social Life in Old Virginia Before the WarPage, Thomas Nelson
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Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War
Page, Thomas Nelson
Virginia -- Social life and customs
She was indeed a strange creature, that delicate, dainty, mischievous,
tender, God-fearing, inexplicable Southern girl. With her fine grain,
her silken hair, her satiny skin, her musical speech; pleasure-loving,
saucy, bewitching--deep down lay the bedrock foundation of innate
virtue, piety, and womanliness, on which were planted all for which
human nature can hope, and all to which it can aspire. Words fail to
convey an idea of what she was; as well try to describe the beauty of
the rose or the perfume of the violet. To appreciate her one must have
seen her, have known her, have loved her.
There are certain other characters without mention of which no
picture of the social life of the South would be complete: the old
mammies and family servants about the house. These were important,
and helped to make the life. The Mammy was the zealous, faithful, and
efficient assistant of the mistress in all that pertained to the care
and training of the children. Her authority was recognized in all
that related to them directly or indirectly, second only to that of
the Mistress and Master. She tended them, regulated them, disciplined
them: having authority indeed in cases to administer correction; for
her affection was undoubted. Her _régime_ extended frequently through
two generations, occasionally through three. From their infancy she
was the careful and faithful nurse, the affection between her and the
children she nursed being often more marked than that between her and
her own offspring. She may have been harsh to the latter; she was
never anything but tender with the others. Her authority was, in a
measure, recognized through life, for her devotion was unquestionable.
The young masters and mistresses were her “children” long after they
had children of their own. When they parted from her or met with her
again after separation, they embraced her with the same affection as
when in childhood she “led them smiling into sleep.” She was worthy of
the affection. At all times she was their faithful ally and champion,
excusing them, shielding them, petting them, aiding them, yet holding
them up too to a certain high accountability. Her influence was always
for good. She received, as she gave, an unqualified affection. If she
was a slave, she at least was not a servant, but was an honored member
of the family, universally beloved, universally cared for--“the Mammy.”
[Illustration: “_She was never anything but tender with the others._”]
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