Social Life in Old Virginia Before the WarPage, Thomas Nelson
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Social Life in Old Virginia Before the War
Page, Thomas Nelson
Virginia -- Social life and customs
spoken in Virginia, goes for nothing.
If the writers of the plays referred to would attend one of the formal
assemblies under one of the old social associations in the South,--for
instance, the St. Cecilia Ball in Charleston, one of the final refuges
of old-fashioned gentility and distinguished manners,--they would get
some idea of what old-time good breeding and high courtesy were.
It is perhaps partly to correct this erroneous idea of the Old South
that this little essay has been attempted. But mainly it has been from
sheer affection.
T. N. P.
SOCIAL LIFE IN OLD VIRGINIA BEFORE THE WAR
Let me see if I can describe an old Virginia home recalled from
a memory stamped with it when a virgin page. It may, perhaps, be
idealized by the haze of time; but it will be as I now remember it.
The mansion was a plain “weather-board” house, one story and a half
above the half-basement ground floor, set on a hill in a grove
of primeval oaks and hickories filled in with ash, maples, and
feathery-leafed locusts without number. It was built of timber cut
by the “servants” (they were never termed slaves except in legal
documents) out of the virgin forest, not long after the Revolution,
when that branch of the family moved from Yorktown. It had quaint
dormer windows, with small panes, poking out from its sloping upstairs
rooms, and long porches to shelter its walls from the sun and allow
house life in the open air.
A number of magnificent oaks and hickories (there had originally been a
dozen of the former, and the place from them took its name, “Oakland”),
under which Totapottamoi children may have played, spread their long
arms about it, sheltering nearly a half-acre apiece; whilst in among
them and all around were ash and maples, an evergreen or two, lilacs
and syringas and roses, and locusts of every age and size, which in
springtime filled the air with honeyed perfume, and lulled with the
“murmur of innumerable bees.”
[Illustration: _The Plantation House._]
There was an “office” in the yard; another house where the boys used
to stay, and the right to sleep in which was as eagerly looked forward
to and as highly prized as was by the youth of Rome the wearing of the
_toga virilis_. There the guns were kept; there the dogs might sleep
with their masters, under, or in cold weather even on, the beds; and
there charming bits of masculine gossip were retailed by the older
young gentlemen, and delicious tales of early wickedness related, all
the more delightful because they were veiled in chaste language phrased
not merely to meet the doctrine, _maxima reverentia pueris debetur_,
but to meet the higher truth that no gentleman would use foul language.
Off to one side was the orchard, in springtime a bower of pink and
snow, and always making a pleasant spot in the landscape; beyond which
peeped the ample barns and stables, and farther yet lay the wide green
fields.
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