Social organization : $b A study of the larger mindCooley, Charles Horton
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Social organization : $b A study of the larger mind
Cooley, Charles Horton
Social psychology; Sociology
You may be very intent to beat the other man in the race, but after
experience of many contests the fair promise of whose morning has
been clouded over by the long and many-worded dispute terminating in
a general row, with indecisive and unsatisfying result, you begin
dimly to perceive that you and the other fellows and the rest of the
crowd, for the very reason that you are contestants and prospective
contestants, have interests in common—interests in the establishment
and maintenance of those necessary rules and regulations without
which satisfactory contests cannot be carried on.... The child’s need
of conflict is from a desire not to exterminate his competitor, but
to overcome him and to have his own superiority acknowledged. The
boy desires to be somebody; but being somebody is to him a social
achievement. And though there is temptation to pervert justice, to
try to get the decision when you have not really furnished the proof,
there is also a motive against such procedure. The person whom you
really and finally want to convince is yourself. Your deepest desire
is to beat the other boy, not merely to seem to beat him. By playing
unfairly and forcing decisions in your own favor, you may possibly
cheat the others, but you cannot cheat yourself.
But the decisions in most of the disputes have behind them the
further, more obviously social, motive of carrying on a successful
game. The sense of common interest has been stretched so as to take
the competitive impulse itself into camp, domesticate it, and make it
a part of the social system. The acutely realized fact that a society
of chronic kickers can never play a game or anything else, comes to be
seen against the background of a possible orderly arrangement of which
one has had occasional experience, and with which one has come at last
to sympathize; there comes to be to some extent an identification
of one’s own interests and purposes with the interests and purposes
of the whole. Certainly the decisions of the group as to whether
Jimmy was out at first, as to who came out last, and whether Mary
Ann was really caught, are felt as community and not as individual
decisions.[19]
No doubt American boys have more of the spirit and practice of this
sort of organization than those of any other country, except possibly
England: they have the constant spectacle of self-government among
their elders, and also, perhaps, some advantage in natural aptitude to
help them on. But it is doubtful if there is any great difference among
the white peoples in the latter regard. American children of German
and Irish descent are not inferior to the Anglo-Saxons, and among the
newer immigrants the Jewish children, at least, show a marked aptitude
for organization. The question might profitably be investigated in our
great cities.
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