We get discipline from the activities that take hold of us because they
are real and functional. There is much of it in school, if the teaching
and atmosphere are such that the scholars put themselves into the work.
The home life also supplies it, in so far as it awakens a similar
spirit; and one underlying reason for the partial decay of discipline
among us is the fact that the family has so largely ceased to have
active and definite functions, requiring the co-operation of all the
members, and so impressing upon them a spirit of loyalty and service. It
is for this reason that we so commonly see a better discipline in the
hard-working families of the farming and laboring classes than among
people whose life is less strenuous.
There is no more effective means of discipline, in its province, than
organized play, mainly because it is voluntary and joyous, so that the
individual is eager to put himself into it, while at the same time it
requires perseverance and team-work. The chief objection to it, as we
have it in America, is the spectacular character it often has, the
multitude looking on with a vicarious and sterile excitement at the
performance of the few who alone get the discipline, which is itself
impaired by the excessive publicity.
Women most commonly get their serious discipline from the care of the
household and children, and we see girls who have grown up frivolously
in well-to-do families transformed by the responsibilities that follow
marriage. For young men bread-winning work is a great disciplinary
agent. The struggle to “make good” in trade, business, or profession,
and establish one’s right to the respect of his fellows and to a home
and family of his own, provides an object, commonly somewhat difficult
to attain, for the sake of which one must learn steadfastness and
self-control. This economic discipline is, on the whole, an admirable
thing in its way, and might be greatly extended and improved by a more
regular and adequate training, in the schools and after, and by the
development of occupational groups. At the best, however, a discipline
based merely on the purpose to make an income and position must be of a
somewhat narrow character, not necessarily leading up to any compelling
sense of loyalty to the community, the state, or mankind.
The problem of discipline and the problem of ideals are much the same.
If we can awaken in ourselves a social and socially religious spirit and
ideal, our discipline will come by the endeavor to give this spirit and
ideal expression.
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