Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.Astell, Mary
Philosophy
Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.
Astell, Mary
Marriage; Women -- Social conditions
What Reason can be assign’d why the Mothers of the Kings of _Judah_, are
so frequently noted in those very short Accounts that are given of their
Reigns, but the great Respect paid them, or perhaps their Influence on
the Government, and Share in the Administration? This is not improbable,
since the wicked _Athaliah_ had Power to carry on her Intrigues so far
as to get Possession of the Throne, and to keep it for some Years.
Neither was there any Necessity for _Asa_’s removing his Mother (or
Grandmother) from being Queen, if this were merely Titular, and did not
carry Power and Authority along with it. And we find what Influence
_Jezabel_ had in _Israel_, indeed to her Husband’s and her own
Destruction.
It was a _Widow-Woman_ whom _GOD_ made choice of to sustain his Prophet
_Elijah_ at _Zarephah_. And the History of the _Shunamite_ is a noble
Instance of the Account that is made of Women in Holy Scripture. For
whether it was not the Custom in _Shunem_ for the Husband to dictate, or
whether her’s was conscious of her superior Vertue, or whatever was the
Reason, we find it is she who governs, _dwelling_ with great Honour and
Satisfaction _among her own People_. Which Happiness she understood so
well, and was so far from a troublesome Ambition, that she desires no
Recommendation to _the King or Captain of the Host_, when the Prophet
offer’d it, being already greater than they could make her. The Text
calls her a _Great Woman_, whilst her Husband is hardly taken Notice of,
and this, no otherwise, than as performing the Office of a Bailiff. It
is _her_ Piety and Hospitality that are Recorded, _She_ invites the
Prophet to _her House_; who converses with, and is entertained by _her_.
She gives her Husband no Account of _her_ Affairs any further, than to
tell him _her_ Designs, that he may see them executed. And when he
desires to know the Reason of her Conduct, all the Answer she affords
is, _Well_, or, as the Margin has it from the _Hebrew_, _Peace_. Nor can
this be thought assuming, since it is no more than what the Prophet
encourages, for all his Addresses are to _her_, he takes no Notice of
her Husband. His Benefits are conferr’d on _her_, ’tis _she_ and _her
Household_ whom he warns of a Famine, and ’tis _she_ who Appeals to the
King for the Restitution of _her House_ and _Land_. I would not infer
from hence, that Women, generally speaking, ought to govern in their
Families when they have a Husband; but I think this Instance and Example
is a sufficient Proof, that if by Custom or Contract, or the Laws of the
Country, or Birth-right, (as in the Case of Sovereign Princesses) they
have the supreme Authority, it is no Usurpation, nor do they act
contrary to Holy Scripture, nor consequently to the Law of Nature. For
they are no where, that I know of, forbidden to claim their just Right:
The Apostle, ’tis true, would not have them _usurp_ Authority, where
Custom and the Law of the strongest had brought them into Subjection, as
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