Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions. — John Shaqi
Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.Astell, Mary
Philosophy
Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.
Astell, Mary
Marriage; Women -- Social conditions
In the Time of Yore a _Knave_ was no more than a Servant, and possibly a
_Gallant_ might originally denote a well-dress’d Coxcomb, who had
nothing else to do but to make Parade of his Wit and Cloaths, and
perhaps of his Valour in Tournament, to gain the general Admiration of
the Ladies, and the Honour of openly professing with Respect and
Distance, his Veneration for some celebrated Beauty, or Woman of Merit.
But modern Gallantry is quite a different Business: The Gallant, the
fine Gentleman in Town, far superior to him upon the Road and all his
Undergraduates, in carrying on his Plot, in the artful Contrivance of
his Design, and Dexterity in executing it, happily combines the Cunning
of the Fox, and the Audacity of the Tyger. Cruel indeed! for he tears
the Fame, worries the Vertue, and compleats the Destruction of his
unhappy Prey. ’Tis well for him that Christianity as yet prevails among
us, for this obliges its Votaries to forgive the highest Injuries:
Should the Morality of the honest Heathen, which some are pleas’d to
profess, but not to practise, become the Fashion, or the old _English_
Spirit, which has done and suffered so much for Liberty and Property,
revive among us, alas! what would become of the _pretty Fellows_? Would
they not run the Risque of being taken for Wolves, or Savages, have a
Price set on their Heads, and be exterminated at any rate, that so among
rational Persons we might be esteem’d a civiliz’d Nation?
These Destroyers avoided, and better Care taken than usual in Womens
Education, Marriage might recover the Dignity and Felicity of its
original Institution; and Men be very happy in a married State, if it be
not their own Fault. The great Author of our Being, who does nothing in
vain, ordained it as the only honourable Way of continuing our Race; as
a Distinction between reasonable Creatures and meer Animals, into which
we degrade our selves, by forsaking the Divine Institution. _GOD_
ordained it for a Blessing, not a Curse: We are foolish as well as
wicked, when that which was appointed for mutual Comfort and Assistance,
has quite contrary Effect through our Folly and Perverseness. Marriage
therefore, notwithstanding all the loose Talk of the Town, the Satires
of antient, or modern Pretenders to Wit, will never lose its just Esteem
from the Wise and Good.
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