Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that work — John Shaqi
Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that workChambers, Robert
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Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that work
Chambers, Robert
English literature -- Scottish authors
I have one word to add, and it is addressed to the female part of my
juvenile readers. Exactly as parents feel a concern for the first
appearance of their sons in the business of life, so do they experience
many anxious and fearful thoughts respecting the disposal of their
daughters in matrimony. Wedded life, I may inform them, is not the
simple matter which it appears prospectively in early and single life.
As it involves many serious duties and responsibilities, it must be
entered upon with a due regard to the means—above all things, the
pecuniary means—of discharging these in a style of respectability, such
as may be sufficient to support the dignity of the various connexions
of the parties. It is, therefore, necessary that no person of tender
years (this is most frequently the lot of the female) should contract
the obligations of matrimony, without, if possible, the entire sanction
of parents or other protectors. The people of this country happen to
entertain, upon this subject, notions of not so strict a kind as are
prevalent in most other nations. In almost all continental and all
eastern countries, the female is reared by her friends as the destined
bride of a particular individual, and till her marriage she is allowed
no opportunity of bestowing her affections upon any other. The custom
is so ancient and so invariable, that it is submitted to without any
feeling of hardship; and as prudence is the governing principle of the
relations, the matches are generally as happy as if they were more
free. Perhaps such a custom is inapplicable to this country, on account
of our different system of domestic life; but I may instance it, to
prove to my fair young readers, that the control of parents over their
choice of a husband ought to be looked upon as a more tolerable and
advantageous thing, than their inclinations might be disposed to allow,
or our popular literature represents it to be.
BRUNTFIELD,
A TALE OF THE SIXTEENTH CENTURY.
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