Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that workChambers, Robert
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Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that work
Chambers, Robert
English literature -- Scottish authors
One of the most important concerns of young people is, the management
of themselves in respect of what are called “acquaintances.” To have
many friends is desirable, in a world where men are generally thrown
so much upon their own resources. But there is a distinction between
the friendship of a certain number of respectable persons, who are only
ready to exert themselves for us when called upon, and the acquaintance
of a circle of contemporaries, who are perpetually forcing themselves
upon our company for the mere purpose of mutual amusement. Taking the
words in their usual signification, a young man ought to wish for many
friends, but few acquaintances. There is something in the countenance
of a companion that cheers and supports the frailty of human nature.
One can speak and act more boldly with a friend by his side, than
when alone. But it is the good fortune of men of strong character,
and it ought to be the object of every one, to act well and boldly
by himself. One thing young people may be assured of, almost all the
great services which enlightened men have done for their race, were
performed alone. There was but one man, not two, at the discovery of
the Compass, of the Copernican System, of the Logarithms, and of the
principle of Vaccination. To descend to lesser things, ask any man who
has risen in worldly fortune, from small beginnings to great wealth and
honour, how he contrived to do so, and you will find that he carved
it all out for himself with his own hand. He will in all probability
inform you that he has reached the honourable station in society which
he now maintains, chiefly by narrowing the circle of his “private
acquaintances,” and extending that of his “public relations,” most
likely adding, that had he on all occasions “consulted” the persons
with whom he happened to be acquainted, as to his designs, he would,
by every calculation, have been still in the same obscure insignificant
situation he once was. The truth is, it is only when alone that we have
the ability to concentrate our minds upon any object; and it is only
when things are done with the full force of _one mind_ qualified for
the purpose, that they are done well.
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