Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that workChambers, Robert
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Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that work
Chambers, Robert
English literature -- Scottish authors
It is the misfortune of young people, before they become fully engaged
in the relations of life and business, that they look too much to
“acquaintances” for encouragement, and make the amusement which
“acquaintances” can furnish too indispensable. The tender mind of
youth is reluctant, or unable, to stand alone; it needs to be one of
a class. Hence, the hours which ought to be spent in the acquisition
of that general knowledge which is so useful in after life, and which
can only be acquired in the vacant days of youth, are thrown away
in the most inglorious pursuits; for “acquaintances” are seldom the
companions of study, or the auxiliaries of business, but most generally
the associates of a debauch, the fellow-flutterers upon the Mall, the
companion-hounds in the chase of empty pleasure. It is amazing how much
a youth can endure of the company of his principal “acquaintance.”
Virgil’s expression, “_tecum consumerer ævo_,” is realised in his
case; for he veritably appears as if he could _spend his whole life_
in the society of the treasured individual. At the approach of that
person, every other matter is cast aside; the most important business
seems nothing in contrast with the interchange of a smile or a jest
with this duplicate of himself. The injunctions of the most valued
relations—even of father and mother—are scattered to the winds, if they
are at variance with the counsels or conduct of this precious person,
whom, after all, he perhaps met only last week at a club. The power of
an “acquaintance” of this kind, for good or evil, over the mind of his
friend, is so very great, that it may well give some concern to those
who are really interested in the prospects of youth. But every effort
to redeem a victim from the fascination, will be in vain, unless his
natural or habitual goodness be shocked by the further exposure of the
“acquaintance’s” character. The only safeguard, therefore, against this
mighty evil, is, _previously_ to accustom youth to depend much upon
themselves, and to endeavour to infuse into them a sufficient degree of
moral excellence, to be a protection to them against the worst vices
which “acquaintances” may attempt to impart to them.
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