The mechanism of listening is very wonderful, the contact between brain
and brain through the sound waves of speech and the reception of the
spoken words by the ear. Jesus often said: “He that hath ears to hear,
let him hear.” The ear with many was, and is, the sole avenue of
acquiring knowledge. It is no disparagement of books to say that the art
of conversation is one of the greatest refinements. But the very essence
of a good conversationalist is that he be also a good listener; else he
is a consummate bore. Sydney Smith said of Macaulay that his occasional
flashes of silence made his conversation delightful. In _Qoheleth Rabba_
we read: “Speech for a shekel, silence for two, it is like a precious
stone.” Broadus had a great lecture on “The Art of Listening.” It is a
really rare art and one of the most useful.
Poor listening will make poor preaching of a really good sermon. Good
listening will come near to making a good sermon out of a poor one. The
writer of Hebrews complains that his readers have become dull of
hearing. The word “dull” means no push. They had no push in their ears,
no energy in listening, were already half asleep. In particular do we
need to listen when God speaks to us in his Word of truth, to have “a
quick and attentive ear to catch what God has spoken” (Hort).
Inattention is irritating and may be deadly. Sirach says: “The mind of a
sagacious person will meditate on a proverb; and an attentive ear is the
desire of a wise man” (3:29). God is constantly speaking to those with
ears to hear. It is good for the young to learn the habit of attention,
a help in meeting temptation.
Eloquent Silence (1:19b)
Another life rule of James (Windisch) is “slow to speak.” One must not
forget Homer’s “winged words,” for words can be laden with messages of
joy and life and peace and love. Eloquence has its place, real eloquence
of the soul—words on fire that blaze and burn, words that thrill and
electrify, words that make life and death noble and high, words like
those of Jesus that are spirit and life (John 6:63). But when all is
said, there is something deeper than mere speech, higher than just
words, nobler than talk. If speech is silvern, silence is often golden.
Sorrow may be too unutterable for words. Joy may pass beyond all speech.
The proverb also has it that “many a man has had to repent of speaking,
but never one of holding his peace,” unless silence is guilty or
cowardly. But it is easy to be voluble with the tongue and slack in
life. Sirach says: “Be not violent with thy tongue, and in thy deeds
slack and remiss.” Volubility is certainly not a sign of power. The
silent man, like Moses, is more likely to be a man of power and
performance. The parrot and the owl form good examples of the weakness
of chatter and the wisdom of silence. Zeno calls attention to the
obvious fact that we have two ears and one mouth and should therefore
listen twice as much as we talk.
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