Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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frequently finds a way to relieve the excessive tension without
the aid of a man. It is self-abuse that leads gradually to the
production of pain in defloration. The menstrual phenomena
correspond to birth; self-gratification or relief during sleep to
intercourse." This statement of the matter is somewhat too
absolute and unqualified. Under the artificial conditions of
civilization the inhibitory influences of training speedily work
powerfully, and more or less successfully, in banishing sexual
phenomena into the subconscious, sometimes to work all the
mischief there which Freud attributes to them. It must also be
said (as I have pointed out in the discussion of Auto-erotism in
another volume) that sexual dreams seem to be the exception
rather than the rule in innocent girls. It remains true that
sexual phenomena in girls at puberty must not be regarded as
morbid or unnatural. There is also very good reason for believing
(even apart from the testimony of so experienced a gynecologist
as Hammer) that on the physical side sexual processes tend to be
accomplished with a facility that is often lost in later years
with prolonged chastity. This is true alike of intercourse and of
childbirth. (See vol. vi of these _Studies_, ch. xii.)
Even, however, in the case of adults the active part played by women in
real life in matters of love by no means corresponds to the conventional
ideas on these subjects. No doubt nearly every woman receives her sexual
initiation from an older and more experienced man. But, on the other hand,
nearly every man receives his first initiation through the active and
designed steps taken by an older and more experienced woman. It is too
often forgotten by those who write on these subjects that the man who
seduces a woman has usually himself in the first place been "seduced" by a
woman.
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