Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
How natural the sexual impulse is in women, whatever difficulties may
arise in regard to its complete gratification, is clearly seen when we
come to consider the frequency with which in young women we witness its
more or less instinctive manifestations. Such manifestations are liable to
occur in a specially marked manner in the years immediately following the
establishment of puberty, and are the more impressive when we remember the
comparatively passive part played by the female generally in the game of
courtship, and the immense social force working on women to compel them to
even an unnatural extension of that passive part. The manifestations to
which I allude not only occur with most frequency in young girls, but,
contrary to the common belief, they seem to occur chiefly in innocent and
unperverted girls. The more vicious are skillful enough to avoid the
necessity for any such open manifestations. We have to bear this in mind
when confronted by flagrant sexual phenomena in young girls.
"A young girl," says Hammer ("Ueber die Sinnlichkeit gesunder
Jungfrauen," _Die Neue Generation_, Aug., 1911), "who has not
previously adopted any method of self-gratification experiences
at the beginning of puberty, about the time of the first
menstruation and the sprouting of the pubic hair, in the absence
of all stimulation by a man, spontaneous sexual tendencies of
both local and psychic nature. On the psychic side there is a
feeling of emptiness and dissatisfaction, a need of subjection
and of serving, and, if the opportunity has so far been absent,
the craving to see masculine nudity and to learn the facts of
procreation. Side by side with these wishes, there are at the
same time inhibitory desires, such as the wish to keep herself
pure, either for a man whom she represents to herself as the
'ideal,' or for her parents, who must not be worried, or as a
member of a chosen people in whose spirit she must live and die,
or out of love to Jesus or to some saint. On the physical side,
there is the feeling of fresh power and energy, of enterprise;
the agreeable tension of the genital regions, which easily become
moist. Then there is the feeling of overirritability and excess
of tension, and the need of relieving the tension through
pinches, blows, tight lacing, and so forth. If the girl remains
innocent of sex satisfaction, there takes place during sleep, at
regular intervals of about three days, more or less the relief
and emission of the tense glands, not corresponding to the
menstrual period, but to intercourse, and serving better than
sexual instruction to represent to her the phenomena of
intercourse. If at this period actual intercourse takes place, it
is, as a rule, free from pain, as also is the introduction of the
speculum. Without any seduction from without, the chaste girl now
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