Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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the money from her by force; the man obeyed, but the girl
defended herself so energetically that he could not secure the
money. Then the judge, calling the parties before him again,
ordered the fine to be returned: "Had you defended your chastity
as well as you have defended your money it could not have been
taken away from you." In most cases of "rape," in the case of
adults, there has probably been some degree of consent, though
that partial assent may have been basely secured by an appeal to
the lower nervous centers alone, with no participation of the
intelligence and will. Freud (_Zur Psychopathologie des
Alltagslebens_, p. 87) considers that on this ground the judge's
decision in _Don Quixote_ is "psychologically unjust," because in
such a case the woman's strength is paralyzed by the fact that an
unconscious instinct in herself takes her assailant's part
against her own conscious resistance. But it must be remembered
that the factor of instinct plays a large part even when no
violence is attempted.
Such facts and considerations as these tend to show that the sexual
impulse is by no means so weak in women as many would lead us to think. It
would appear that, whereas in earlier ages there was generally a tendency
to credit women with an unduly large share of the sexual impulse, there is
now a tendency to unduly minimize the sexual impulse in women.
FOOTNOTES:
[156] I have had occasion to refer to the historic evolution of male
opinion regarding women in previous volumes, as, e.g., _Man and Woman_,
chapter i, and the appendix on "The Influence of Menstruation on the
Position of Women" in the first volume of these _Studies_.
[157] The terminology proposed by Ziehen ("Zur Lehre von den
psychopathischen Konstitutionen," _Charité Annalen_, vol. xxxxiii, 1909)
is as follows: For absence of sexual feeling, _anhedonia_; for diminution
of the same, _hyphedonia_; for excess of sexual feeling, _hyperhedonia_;
for qualitative sexual perversions, _parhedonia_. "Erotic blindness" was
suggested by Nardelli.
[158] O. Adler, _Die Mangelhafte Geschlechtsempfindung des Weibes_, 1904,
p. 146.
[159] A correspondent tells me that he knows a woman who has been a
prostitute since the age of 15, but never experienced sexual pleasure and
a real, non-simulated orgasm till she was 23; since then she has become
very sensual. In other similar cases the hitherto indifferent prostitute,
having found the man who suits her, abandons her profession, even though
she is thereby compelled to live in extreme poverty. "An insensible
woman," as La Bruyère long ago remarked in his chapter "Des Femmes," "is
merely one who has not yet seen the man she must love."
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