Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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Beaunis considers that the slower development of the orgasm in
women is the only essential difference in the sexual process in
men and women. (Beaunis, _Les Sensations Internes_, 1889, p.
151.) This characteristic of the sexual impulse in women, though
recognized for so long a period, is still far too often ignored
or unknown. There is even a superstition that injurious results
may follow if the male orgasm is not effected as rapidly as
possible. That this is not so is shown by the experiences of the
Oneida community in America, who in their system of sexual
relationship carried prolonged intercourse without ejaculation to
an extreme degree. There can be no doubt whatever that very
prolonged intercourse gives the maximum amount of pleasure and
relief to the woman. Not only is this the very decided opinion of
women who have experienced it, but it is also indicated by the
well-recognized fact that a woman who repeats the sexual act
several times in succession often experiences more intense orgasm
and pleasure with each repetition.
This point is much better understood in the East than in the
West. The prolongation of the man's excitement, in order to give
the woman time for orgasm, is, remarks Sir Richard Burton
(_Arabian Nights_, vol. v, p. 76), much studied by Moslems, as
also by Hindoos, who, on this account, during the orgasm seek to
avoid overtension of muscles and to preoccupy the brain. During
coitus they will drink sherbet, chew betel-nut, and even smoke.
Europeans devote no care to this matter, and Hindoo women, who
require about twenty minutes to complete the act, contemptuously
call them "village cocks." I have received confirmation of
Burton's statements on this point from medical correspondents in
India.
While the European desires to perform as many acts of coitus in
one night as possible, Breitenstein remarks, the Malay, as still
more the Javanese, wishes, not to repeat the act many times, but
to prolong it. His aim is to remain in the vagina for about a
quarter of an hour. Unlike the European, also, he boasts of the
pleasure he has given his partner far more than of his own
pleasure. (Breitenstein, _21 Jahre in India_, theil i, "Borneo,"
p. 228.)
Jäger (_Entdeckung der Seele_, second edition, vol. i, 1884, p.
203), as quoted by Moll, explains the preference of some women
for castrated men as due, not merely to the absence of risk of
impregnation, but to the prolonged erections that take place in
the castrated. Aly-Belfàdel remarks (_Archivio di Psichiatria_,
1903, p. 117) that he knows women who prefer old men in coitus
simply because of their delay in ejaculation which allows more
time to the women to become excited.
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