Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
A Russian correspondent living in Italy informs me that a
Neapolitan girl of 17, who had only recently ceased to be a
virgin, explained to him that she preferred _coitus in ore vulvæ_
to real intercourse because the latter was over before she had
time to obtain the orgasm (or, as she put it, "the big bird has
fled from the cage and I am left in the lurch"), while in the
other way she was able to experience the orgasm twice before her
partner reached the climax. "This reminds me," my correspondent
continues, "that a Milanese cocotte once told me that she much
liked intercourse with Jews because, on account of the
circumcised penis being less sensitive to contact, they ejaculate
more slowly then Christians. 'With Christians,' she said, 'it
constantly happens that I am left unsatisfied because they
ejaculate before me, while in coitus with Jews I sometimes
ejaculate twice before the orgasm occurs in my partner, or,
rather, I hold back the second orgasm until he is ready.' This is
confirmed," my correspondent continues, "by what I was told by a
Russian Jew, a student at the Zürich Polytechnic, who had a
Russian comrade living with a mistress, also a Russian student,
or pseudostudent. One day the Jew, going early to see his friend,
was told to enter by a woman's voice and found his friend's
mistress alone and in her chemise beside the bed. He was about to
retire, but the young woman bade him stay and in a few minutes he
was in bed with her. She told him that her lover had just gone
away and that she never had sexual relief with him because he
always ejaculated too soon. That morning he had left her so
excited and so unrelieved that she was just about to
masturbate--which she rarely did because it gave her
headache--when she heard the Jew's voice, and, knowing that Jews
are slower in coitus than Christians, she had suddenly resolved
to give herself to him."
I am informed that the sexual power of negroes and slower
ejaculation (see Appendix A) are the cause of the favor with
which they are viewed by some white women of strong sexual
passions in America, and by many prostitutes. At one time there
was a special house in New York City to which white women
resorted for these "buck lovers"; the women came heavily veiled
and would inspect the penises of the men before making their
selection.
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