Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
Kisch is very decidedly of the same opinion, and considers that
the popular belief on this point is fully justified. It is a
fact, he states, that an unfaithful wife is more likely to
conceive with her lover than with her husband, and he concludes
that, whatever the precise mechanism may be, "sexual excitement
on the woman's part is a necessary link in the chain of
conditions producing impregnation." (E.H. Kisch, _Die Sterilität
des Weibes_, 1886, p. 99.) Kisch believes (p. 103) that in the
majority of women sexual pleasure only appears gradually, after
the first cohabitation, and then develops progressively, and that
the first conception usually coincides with its complete
awakening. In 556 cases of his own the most frequent epoch of
first impregnation was found to be between ten and fifteen months
after marriage.
The removal of sexual frigidity thus becomes a matter of some
importance. This removal may in some cases be effected by
treatment through the husband, but that course is not always
practicable. Dr. Douglas Bryan, of Leicester, informs me that in
several cases he has succeeded in removing sexual coldness and
physical aversion in the wife by hypnotic suggestion. The
suggestions given to the patient are "that all her womanly
natural feelings would be quickly and satisfactorily developed
during coitus; that she would experience no feeling of disgust
and nausea, would have no fear of the orgasm not developing; that
there would be no involuntary resistance on her part." The fact
that such suggestions can be permanently effective tends to show
how superficial the sexual "anesthesia" of women usually is.
Not only, therefore, is the apparatus of sexual excitement in women more
complex than in men, but--in part, possibly as a result of this greater
complexity--it much more frequently requires to be actively aroused. In
men tumescence tends to occur almost spontaneously, or under the simple
influence of accumulated semen. In women, also, especially in those who
live a natural and healthy life, sexual excitement also tends to occur
spontaneously, but by no means so frequently as in men. The comparative
rarity of sexual dreams in women who have not had sexual relationships
alone serves to indicate this sexual difference. In a very large number of
women the sexual impulse remains latent until aroused by a lover's
caresses. The youth spontaneously becomes a man; but the maiden--as it has
been said--"must be kissed into a woman."
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