Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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One result of this characteristic is that, more especially when love is
unduly delayed beyond the first youth, this complex apparatus has
difficulty in responding to the unfamiliar demands of sexual excitement.
Moreover, delayed normal sexual relations, when the sexual impulse is not
absolutely latent, tend to induce all degrees of perverted or abnormal
sexual gratification, and the physical mechanism when trained to respond
in other ways often fails to respond normally when, at last, the normal
conditions of response are presented. In all these ways passivity and even
aversion may be produced in the conjugal relationship. The fact that it is
almost normally the function of the male to arouse the female, and that
the greater complexity of the sexual mechanism in women leads to more
frequent disturbance of that mechanism, produces a simulation of organic
sexual coldness which has deceived many.
An instructive study of cases in which the sexual impulse has
been thus perverted has been presented by Smith Baker ("The
Neuropsychical Element in Conjugal Aversion," _Journal of Nervous
and Mental Disease_, vol. xvii, September, 1892). Raymond and
Janet, who believes that sexual coldness is extremely frequent in
marriage, and that it plays an important part in the causation of
physical and moral troubles, find that it is most often due to
masturbation. (_Les Obsessions_, vol. ii, p. 307.) Adler, after
discussing the complexity of the feminine sexual mechanism, and
the difficulty which women find in obtaining sexual gratification
in normal coitus, concludes that "masturbation is a frequent,
perhaps the most frequent, cause of defective sexual sensibility
in women." (_Op. cit._, p. 119.) He remarks that in women
masturbation usually has less resemblance to normal coitus than
in men and involves very frequently the special excitation of
parts which are not the chief focus of excitement in coitus, so
that coitus fails to supply the excitation which has become
habitual (pp. 113-116). In the discussion of "Auto-erotism" in
the first volume of these _Studies_, I had already referred to
the divorce between the physical and the ideal sides of love
which may, especially in women, be induced by masturbation.
Another cause of inhibited sexual feeling has been brought
forward. A married lady with normal sexual impulse states
(_Sexual-Probleme_, April, 1912, p. 290) that she cannot
experience orgasm and sexual satisfaction when the intercourse is
not for conception. This is a psychic inhibition independent of
any disturbance due to the process of prevention. She knows other
women who are similarly affected. Such an inhibition must be
regarded as artificial and abnormal, since the final result of
sexual intercourse, under natural and normal conditions, forms no
essential constituent of the psychic process of intercourse.
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