Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6: Sex in Relation to SocietyEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6: Sex in Relation to Society
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
Ninon de Lenclos, who is frequently called "the last of the great
courtesans," may seem an exception to the general rule as to the
inability of a woman of good heart, high character, and fine
intelligence to find satisfaction in a prostitute's life. But it
is a total misconception alike of Ninon de Lenclos's temperament
and her career to regard her as in any true sense a prostitute at
all. A knowledge of even the barest outlines of her life ought to
prevent such a mistake. Born early in the seventeenth century,
she was of good family on both sides; her mother was a woman of
severe life, but her father, a gentleman of Touraine, inspired
her with his own Epicurean philosophy as well as his love of
music. She was extremely well educated. At the age of sixteen or
seventeen she had her first lover, the noble and valiant Gaspard
de Coligny; he was followed for half a century by a long
succession of other lovers, sometimes more than one at a time;
three years was the longest period during which she was faithful
to one lover. Her attractions lasted so long that, it is said,
three generations of Sévignés were among her lovers. Tallemant
des Réaux enables us to study in detail her _liaisons_.
It is not, however, the abundance of lovers which makes a woman a
prostitute, but the nature of her relationships with them.
Sainte-Beuve, in an otherwise admirable study of Ninon de Lenclos
(_Causeries du Lundi_, vol. iv), seems to reckon her among the
courtesans. But no woman is a prostitute unless she uses men as a
source of pecuniary gain. Not only is there no evidence that this
was the case with Ninon, but all the evidence excludes such a
relationship. "It required much skill," said Voltaire, "and a
great deal of love on her part, to induce her to accept
presents." Tallemant, indeed, says that she sometimes took money
from her lovers, but this statement probably involves nothing
beyond what is contained in Voltaire's remark, and, in any case,
Tallemant's gossip, though usually well-informed, was not always
reliable. All are agreed as to her extreme disinterestedness.
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