Things grow a great deal worse when we try to throw our scientific
lassoo about the elusive spirit of a child of four or six, and to catch
the exact meaning of its swiftly changing movements. Children are, no
doubt, at this age frank before the eye of love, and their minds are
vastly more accessible than that of the dumb dog that can only look his
ardent thoughts. Yet they are by no means so open to view as is often
supposed. All kinds of shy reticences hamper them: they feel unskilled
in using our cumbrous language; they soon find out that their thoughts
are not as ours, but often make us laugh. And how carefully are they
wont to hide from our sight their nameless terrors, physical and moral.
Much of the deeper childish experience can only reach us, if at all,
years after it is over, through the faulty medium of adult memory—faulty
even when it is the memory of a Goethe, a George Sand, a Robert Louis
Stevenson.[5]
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Footnote 5:
In these days of published reminiscences of childhood it is quite
refreshing to meet with a book like Mr. James Payn’s _Gleams of
Memory_, which honestly confesses that its early recollections are
almost _nil_.
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Even when there is perfect candour, and the little one does his best to
instruct us as to what is passing in his mind by his ‘whys’ and his ‘I
’sposes,’ accompanied by the most eloquent of looks, we find ourselves
ever and again unequal to comprehending. Child-thought follows its own
paths—roads, as Mr. Rudyard Kipling has well said, “unknown to those who
have left childhood behind”. The dark sayings of childhood, as when a
child asks, ‘Why am I not somebody else?’ will be fully illustrated
below.
This being so, it might well seem arrogant to speak of any ‘scientific’
investigation of the child’s mind; and, to be candid, I may as well
confess that, in spite of some recently published highly hopeful
forecasts of what child-psychology is going to do for us, I think we are
a long way off from a perfectly scientific account of it. Our so-called
theories of children’s mental activity has so often been hasty
generalisations from imperfect observation. Children are probably much
more diverse in their ways of thinking and feeling than our theories
suppose. But of this more presently. Even where we meet with a common
and comparatively prominent trait, we are far as yet from having a
perfect comprehension of it. I at least believe that children’s play,
about which so much has confidently been written, is but imperfectly
understood. Is it serious business, half-conscious make-believe, more
than half-conscious acting, or, no one of these, or all of them by
turns? I think he would be a bold man who ventured to answer this
question straight away.
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