It is worth noting that the little boy to whom I referred just now
displayed the same signs of uneasiness at seeing old friends, after an
interval, as at returning to old scenes. When eight months old, “he
moaned in a curious way when his nurse (of whom he was very fond) came
home after a fortnight’s holiday”. Here, however, the signs of fear seem
to be less pronounced than in the case of returning to the old room. It
would be difficult to give the right name to this curious moan.
Partial alteration of the surroundings frequently brings about a measure
of this same mental uneasiness. Preyer’s boy when one year and five
months old was much disturbed at seeing his mother in a black dress.
Children seem to have a special dislike to black apparel. George Sand
describes her fear at having to put on black stockings when her father
died. Yet any change of colour in dress will disturb a child. C., when
an infant, was distressed to tears at the spectacle of a new colour and
pattern on his mother’s dress. This dislike to any change of dress as
such is borne out by other observations. A child manifested between the
age of about seven months and of two and a half years the most marked
repugnance to new clothes, so that the authorities found it very
difficult to get them on. It is presumable that the donning of new
apparel disturbed too rudely the child’s sense of his proper self.
In certain cases the introduction of new natural objects of great extent
and impressiveness will produce a similar effect of childish anxiety, as
though they made too violent a change in the surroundings. One of the
best illustrations of this obtainable from the life of an average
well-to-do child is the impression produced by a first visit to the sea.
Preyer’s boy at the age of twenty-one months showed all the signs of
fear when his nurse carried him on her arm close to the sea.[139] The
boy C. on being first taken near the sea at the age of two was disturbed
by its noise. While, however, I have a number of well-authenticated
cases of such an instinctive repugnance to, and something like dread of
the sea, I find that there is by no means uniformity in children’s
behaviour in this particular. A little boy who first saw the sea at the
age of thirteen months exhibited signs not of fear but of wondering
delight, prettily stretching out his tiny hands towards it as if wanting
to go to it. Another child who also first saw the sea at the age of
thirteen months began to crawl towards the waves. And yet another boy at
the age of twenty-one months on first seeing the sea spread his arms as
if to embrace it.
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Footnote 139:
_Op. cit._, p. 131.
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These observations show that the strange big thing affects children very
differently. C. had a particular dislike to noises, which was, I think,
early strengthened by finding out that his father had the same
prejudice. Hence perhaps his hostile attitude towards the sea.
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