On this point there are some excellent observations made by Miss
Shinn, who points out that physical pain when not too severe is apt to
be lost sight of in the new feeling of personal consequence to which
it gives rise (_Notes on the Development of a Child_, pt. ii., p. 144
ff.)
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Much the same thing shows itself in the cases where fear can be clearly
traced to experience and association. In some of these it is no doubt
remembered experience of suffering which causes the fear. A child that
has been seriously burned will unquestionably be frightened at a too
close approach of a red-hot poker. But in many cases of this excitation
of fear by association it is the primary experience of fear itself which
seems to be the real object of the apprehension. Thus a child who has
been frightened by a dog will betray signs of fear at the sight of a
kennel, of a picture of a dog, and so forth. The little boy referred to
above who was afraid of the toy elephant that shook its head showed
signs of fear a fortnight afterwards on coming across a picture of an
elephant in a picture-book. In such ways does fear propagate fear in the
timid little breast.
One cannot part from the theme of children’s fears without a reference
to a closely connected subject, the problem of their happiness. To ask
whether childhood is a happy time, still more to ask whether it is the
happiest, is to raise perhaps a foolish and insoluble question. Later
reminiscences would seem in this case to be particularly untrustworthy.
Children themselves no doubt may have very definite views on the
subject. A child will tell you with the unmistakable marks of profound
conviction that he is _so_ unhappy. But paradoxical as it may seem,
children really know very little about the matter. At the best they can
only tell you how they feel at particular moments. To seek for a precise
and satisfactory solution of the problem is thus futile. Only rough
comparisons of childhood and later life are possible.
In any such comparison the fears of early years claim, no doubt, careful
consideration. There seem to be people who have no idea what the agony
of these early terrors amounts to. And since it is the unknown that
excites this fear, and the unknown in childhood is almost everything,
the possibilities of suffering from this source are great enough.
Alike the Good, the Ill offend thy Sight,
And rouse the stormy sense of shrill affright.
George Sand hardly exaggerates when she writes: “Fear is, I believe, the
greatest moral suffering of children”. In the case of weakly, nervous
and imaginative children, more especially, this susceptibility to terror
may bring miserable days and yet more miserable nights.
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