Nevertheless, it is easy here to pass from one extreme of brutal
indifference to another of sentimental exaggeration. Childish suffering
is terrible while it lasts, but happily it has a way of not lasting. The
cruel distorting fit of terror passes and leaves the little face with
its old sunny out-look. It is to be remembered, too, that while children
are pitiably fearful in their own way, they are, as we have seen in the
case of the little Walter Scott, delightfully fearless also, as judged
by our standards. How oddly fear and fearlessness go together is
illustrated in a story sent me. A little boy fell into a brook. On his
being fished out by his mother, his sister, aged four, asked him: ‘Did
you see any crocodiles?’ ‘No,’ answered the boy, ‘I wasn’t in long
enough.’ The absence of fear of the water itself was as characteristic
as the presence of fear of the crocodile.
It is refreshing to find that in certain cases at least where older
people have done their worst to excite terror, a child has escaped its
suffering. Professor Barnes tells us that a Californian child’s belief
in the supernatural takes on a happy tone, directing itself to images of
heaven with trees, birds, and other pretty things, and giving but little
heed to the horrors of hell.[158] In less sunny climes than California
children may not, perhaps, be such little optimists, and it is probable
that graphic descriptions of hell-fire have sent many a creepy thrill of
horror along a child’s tender nerves. Still it may be said that, owing
to the fortunate circumstance of children having much less fear of fire
than many animals, the misery in which eternal punishment is wont to be
bodied forth does not work so powerfully as one might expect on a
child’s imagination. The author of _The Uninitiated_ illustrates a real
child-trait when she makes her small heroine conceive of hell as a place
that _smelt_ nastily (from its brimstone).[159] Then it is noticeable
that children in general are but little affected by fear at the sight or
the thought of death. The child C. had a passing dread of being buried,
but his young hopeful heart refused to credit the fact of that far-off
calamity. Other children, I find, dislike the idea of death as
threatening to deprive them of their mother. Perhaps they can more
readily suppose that somebody else will die than that they themselves
will do so. This comparative immunity from the dread of death is no
small deduction to be made from the burden of children’s fear.
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Footnote 158:
_Pedagogical Review_, ii., 3, p. 445.
Footnote 159:
p. 43.
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