At the same time the child is more than this. In this first clash of his
will with another’s he knows more than the brute’s sensual fury. He
suffers consciously, he realises himself in his antagonism to a world
outside him. It is probable, as I have pointed out before, that even a
physical check bringing pain, as when the child runs his head against a
wall, may develop this consciousness of self in its antagonism to a
not-self. This consciousness reaches a higher phase when the opposing
force is distinctly apprehended as another will. Self-feeling, a germ of
the feeling of ‘my worth,’ enters into this early passionateness and
differentiates it from a mere animal rage. The absolute prostration of
infantile anger seems to be the expression of this keen consciousness of
rebuff, of injury.
While, then, these outbursts of savage instinct in children are no doubt
ugly, and in their direction contra-moral, they must not hastily be
pronounced wholly bad and wicked. To call them wicked in the full sense
of that term is indeed to forget that they are the swift reactions of
instinct which have in them nothing of reflexion or of deliberation. The
angry child venting his spite in some wild act of violence is a long way
from a man who knowingly and with the consent of his will retaliates and
hates. The very fleeting character of the outbreak, the rapid subsidence
of passion and transition to another mood, show that there is here no
real _malice prépense_. These instincts will, no doubt, if they are not
tamed, develop later on into truly wicked dispositions; yet it is by no
means a small matter to recognise that they do not amount to full moral
depravity.
On the other hand, we have seen that we do not render complete justice
to these early manifestations of angry passion if we class them with
those of the brute. The child in these first years, though not yet human
in the sense of having rational insight into his wrong-doing, is human
in the sense of suffering through consciousness of an injured self. This
reflective element is not yet moral; the sense of injury may turn
by-and-by into lasting hatred. Yet it holds within itself possibilities
of something higher. But of this more when we come to envisage the child
in his relation to authority.
The same predominance of self, the same kinship with the unsocial brute
which shows itself in these germinal animosities, is said to reappear in
the insensibility or unfeelingness of children. The commonest charge
against children from those who are not on intimate terms with them, and
sometimes, alas, from those who are, is that they are heartless and
cruel.
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