The little stratagem begins to look more serious when the child gets
artful enough to put the mother off the scent by a false statement. For
example, a mite of three having in a moment of temper called her mother
‘monkey,’ and being questioned as to what she had said, replied: “I said
I was a monkey”. In some cases the child does not wait to be questioned.
A little girl mentioned by Compayré, being put out by something the
mother had done or said, cried: ‘Nasty!’ (Vilaine!) then after a
significant silence, corrected herself in this wise, ‘Dolly nasty’
(Poupée vilaine). The skill with which this transference was effected
without any violence to grammar argues a precocious art.[184]
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Footnote 184:
Perez gives a similar story, only that the epithet ‘vilaine’ was here
transferred to ‘l’eau’. _L’Education dès le berceau_, p. 53.
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Our moral discipline may develop untruth in another way. When the
punishment has been inflicted and the governor, relenting from the
brutal harshness, asks: ‘Are you sorry?’ or ‘Aren’t you sorry?’ the
answer is exceedingly likely to be ‘No,’ even though this is in a sense
untrue. More clearly is this lying of obstinacy seen where a child is
shut up and kept without food. Asked: ‘Are you hungry?’ the hardy little
sinner stifles his sensations and pluckily answers ‘No,’ even though the
low and dismal character of the sound shows that the untruth is but a
half-hearted affair.
I have tried to show how a child’s untruths may be more than half
“playing,” how when they are serious assertions they may involve a
measure of self-deception, and how even when consciously false they may
have their origin in excusable circumstances and feelings. In urging all
this I do not wish to deny the statement that children wall sometimes
deliberately invent a lie from a base motive, as when a girl of three
seeing her little brother caressed by her mother for some minutes and
feeling herself neglected fabricated the story that ‘Henri’ had been
cruel to the parrot.[185] Yet I am disposed to look on such mean
falsehoods as exceptional if not abnormal.
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Footnote 185:
Perez, _L’Education dès le berceau_, p. 54.
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